Can a relationship go back to normal after someone cheated

[Family Man]

I really don’t think these dudes hang around women they aren’t fukking or trying to fukk.

I’m thankful as fukk that I do because it really opens your eyes and allows you to see them as human beings that fukk/cheat for all the same reasons as men

These nikkas setting themselves up for failure or at the very least an assault charge in the future.
They're making an argument that they think benefit them but they're actually fukking themselves over in the process.

They're lining themselves up to internalize the reason their woman cheated on them. Cheating is a character flaw from the cheater. bytches cheat for the exact same reason why dudes cheat. If my partner should ever cheat on me I'm not accepting any of responsibility she'll try to manipulate you into taking. It's all on her. nikkas are clowns and will allow a woman to finesse him into blaming himself for why she got dikk somewhere else.

Cheating is equally cowardly, grimy, and disgusting regardless if it's a man doing it or a woman doing it.
I'm not even focused on just the sex. I'm talking about all the other shyt the cheater had to do facilitate the cheating. All the lying, playing your partner for a fool, exposing them to STDs, siphoning energy and resources from your relationship to your affair, pretending to be someone that you're not....

 

[mag357]

Lol how can a man cheat on his partner and it’s not total disrespect but a woman cheating on her partner equates to total disrespect?

You’re pretty much arguing that because men are less selective and more likely to fukk if offered means it somehow more respectful which is a really stupid argument.

And women will absolutely fukk random dudes with no feelings attached.

Smh...

 

[mag357]

Lol how can a man cheat on his partner and it’s not total disrespect but a woman cheating on her partner equates to total disrespect?

You’re pretty much arguing that because men are less selective and more likely to fukk if offered means it somehow more respectful which is a really stupid argument.

And women will absolutely fukk random dudes with no feelings attached.

I really don’t think these dudes hang around women they aren’t fukking or trying to fukk.

I’m thankful as fukk that I do because it really opens your eyes and allows you to see them as human beings that fukk/cheat for all the same reasons as men

nikkaz in here trying to convince people that men and women are the same...

Some shyt that u learn as a fukking toddler... these nikkaz cant grasp as fukking adults

They are biologically different, and emotionally different.... their motivation in life is different

If bytches fukked nikkaz "just because " like men would fukk females... women would have literally a thousand bodies under their belt because chix get offered dikk atleast 5x a day.... everyday.

I'm not saying the wanna marry every nikka they fukk... but they ain't just fukking cause the person in front of them has a dikk...

Listen to women bruhs smh

 

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Men nope.
Women, yep.

That’s b/c men’s side pieces 9/10 fukk it up. Also men lie to themselves about p*ssy not impacting them but they start changing.

Women can get the dikk drama free, have an entire baby for another man, play it off like it’s yours, and take that secret to the grave and never miss a beat. You never know that she’s in a good mood after dealing with your bullshyt b/c she had an emotionally cathartic session with her side dikk. Im tempted to say side dikk might keep some relationships stable.

Men be fumbling, changing it up, making dumb moves and mistakes, getting caught up, getting mad at side chicks for ending it.

Also silly bro babble stories about women not being able to compartmentalize emotions makes it even easier. Dudes be doing their dirt, arrogantly never even EXPECTING chick to step out.

Meanwhile, lil Bobby be suspiciously resembling that military captain with the nice lawn next door and wifey still fixing pancakes on Saturday morning.

“Hey Bob! Crazy weather we got today, amirite?”

Spoiler

Relax, women get away with cheating because men just want your p*ssy so we know how to shut up and avoid the drama, we don’t care about your situation just the fact that you sharing the p*ssy.

men fukk up with cheating because side pieces want to make their presence known since women love to fukking compete, late night texts and calling at the wrong time, yall know yall role but refuse to play it out of being petty

 

[Sterling Archer]

I think you could work through it but it’ll never go back to normal.

 

[mag357]

Relax, women get away with cheating because men just want your p*ssy so we know how to shut up and avoid the drama, we don’t care about your situation just the fact that you sharing the p*ssy.

men fukk up with cheating because side pieces want to make their presence known since women love to fukking compete, late night texts and calling at the wrong time, yall know yall role but refuse to play it out of being petty

Nope... women get away with cheating because most men dont expect their woman to cheat on them....
So even if something suspicious happens...
nikkaz never gonna assume "wifey" would do him dirty. So shorty can easily explain the shyt away, and he'll eat it up....

On the flip side, everyone knows men like new p*ssy and without thinking might go out and cheat.
So if the nikka even walks in late, women already giving her man the side eye. And might start searching for evidence

 

[Vodun]

I have. Couldn’t get the thought of her sucking another man’s dikk and getting smashed outta my head pause. Did it go back to normal, yes, but the thoughts were still there like I said.

That shyt can cause insecurities foreal.

Are yall still together?

 

[Gold]

Nah

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[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Relax, women get away with cheating because men just want your p*ssy so we know how to shut up and avoid the drama, we don’t care about your situation just the fact that you sharing the p*ssy.

men fukk up with cheating because side pieces want to make their presence known since women love to fukking compete, late night texts and calling at the wrong time, yall know yall role but refuse to play it out of being petty

I mentioned that dynamic.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

No. The relationship cannot and should not go back to how it was before. If y'all choose to stay together then you have to start a new relationship with different terms.

I'm not gonna judge a person that chooses to stay with a cheater because you don't know how you will react until you're in that situation.
Personally, If my wife cheat on me I likely will not reconcile with her. If I do reconcile with her it would be just for the kids and to protect assets. Our new relationship would become open. I know I can't expect fidelity from her and she now has no grounds to demand or expect it from me.
By it's definition, cheaters are cowards, selfish, and hypocritical lowlives. They have certain expectations of their partner that they themselves aren't willing to reciprocate.

As Brother Malcolm said, betrayal is worse than death.

I’ve been there. Sheesh. My son’s mom and I are cool. Maybe too cool for my fiancée’s taste. It was bad really from the offset but it’s going on 5 years since her and I. We’ll never. That ship has sailed plus our son starts high school so we’re on the shot clock.

 

[Mensch Fontana]

80% of relationships do. as long as no one finds out

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

To answer the OP’s question, nope! It will reveal it’s ugly here and there. It’s tainted and become toxic.

 

[Yo Mama]

So it can work but its diff

Relationship after

It depends...

*I bring it up when necessary, to get my way. I will always have the "moral high ground" till he decides to dump me first.

*I will NEVER forgive, and unless I get amnesia or something I will never forget.

*I won't break up anytime soon, no advantage to it at the moment.

*I have told him if i were him I'd find a new person, someone who doesn't have a 'grudge' they could act upon at any moment, he thought i was being funny.

* He is still good-looking, so there is that.

*Kids, he is an adulterous shyt, but a good dad.

* People are shytty, what are the chances of finding a less shytty, but prettier tall man???? Yeah im shallow.


So you just have to weigh the pros and cons. Coz you are the one who has to live with your decisions.

 

[karim]

nikkaz in here trying to convince people that men and women are the same...

Some shyt that u learn as a fukking toddler... these nikkaz cant grasp as fukking adults

They are biologically different, and emotionally different.... their motivation in life is different

If bytches fukked nikkaz "just because " like men would fukk females... women would have literally a thousand bodies under their belt because chix get offered dikk atleast 5x a day.... everyday.

I'm not saying the wanna marry every nikka they fukk... but they ain't just fukking cause the person in front of them has a dikk...

Listen to women bruhs smh

I have some uncomfortable news for you breh

 

[Yo Mama]

You don’t think there are men who have taken wives back after they cheating due to kids and marriage?

I know a few who have taken back cheating wives/girlfriends.