Can a Man and a Woman not in a relationship, truly be "best friends"???

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I have a male best friend. He's had 2 gf's since we've known each other. I know he's not attracted to me because I'm not attractive :laugh:.

He's good looking but I don't but I only see him as a friend.

I think I love you :to:
 

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It can only happen if they're not physically attracted to each other. A female friend is good to have if she got a lot of female friends and she ain't trying to block you from getting at them.
 

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I have a female best friend, that I've known for about 6 years now. I'd be lying if I said I haven't thought about knockin it down though. Though she does have a twin sister. :youngsabo:
 

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Can a Man and a Woman not in a relationship, truly be "best friends"??? if they are drunk and/or nude...will they have sex?
 

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Yeah, my best friend is a girl. She's pretty, but there's never been any kind of attraction/tension between us. She's a level headed, conservative muslim saving herself for marriage and I'm an emotional, promiscuous atheist who doesn't believe in monogamy. We knew we'd never work out together without ever having to talk about it :russ:
 

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bull...there is hidden not acted upon sexual chemistry...which is why you both have contemplated hooking up and not
 
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Yeah my best friend is a female. I thought about smashing the first week I met her but not since then. I'm not attracted to her anymore.

I don't see why you can't. No one here wants to have sex with their sister right? You just have to build up the friendship to be on the level of family and the sexual tension goes away.
 

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Yeah, I think it is possible.........but with one caveat.


We began as people who were trying to get to know one another in a dating sense. Unfortunately (or fortunately) we didn't work and subsequently became great friends.


I would say I have about 3 to 4 female friends in this category.
 
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sure you can..

just like any other friend....

except this friend has a p*ssy....

which makes for a strange "friendship"... because by design, i'm gonna get curious about said p*ssy...

hmm....

is this truly a friend or a chick I haven't smashed/attempted to smash yet...

this is gonna take some time.
 

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I have one. I tried to get at her in 07, she said she had a man come to find out it was someone who's like a brother to me. she's a solid 8.5 though. and she caking.

i don't break that code so all lust vanished about 6 months after I found this out.
 
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I have one. I tried to get at her in 07, she said she had a man come to find out it was someone who's like a brother to me. she's a solid 8.5 though. and she caking.

i don't break that code so all lust vanished about 6 months after I found this out.

if she laid the p*ssy in front of you would you beat?
 

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life's too short for that bullshyt...

jus call her... meet her... facebook her or whatever you crazy kids do these days... and say that you want your best friend back.

Be the bigger man and make the first move... Leave your ego at the door.

Nah. I still have feelings for her. I don't want to reconnect until I know that shyts gone or I have a new chick.

All I'd do is bring unnecessary drama back into this hoe's life that im sure neither of us need
 

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I used to say no and I refused to call any females my friend then I met a lady who's really been down for me, I don't really find her attractive but we ve helped each other a lot over the last 5 yrs and I love her in a sisterly way.
 

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I'm sure a few females will claim they have or had a male "bestfriend" (probably a :wrist:) in their lives, where there was zero desire or sexual attraction in their relationship. Honestly though, can a guy and girl be that close without some type of affection or longing for one another?

There was only one time in my life I would say I had a female "bestfriend" But I had just fell for her and got put in the friend-zone and worked my way up the ranks. I woulda wifed her tho :to:

I know a lot of girls who have fukked a guy who they've claimed was their "best friend" at some point. If you're around someone of the opposite sex a lot, and click with their personality, chances are at one point y'all gonna have that :noah: moment

So do y'all think a 100% platonic relationship with someone you call you "bestfriend" of the opposite sex it possible...?
You dudes watch too much porn'
 
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