End of the day there's a very large group of people who value chaos and disorder because it's all they know. If you've never grown up in a two parent (marriage) home, if you didn't grow up seeing positive relationships, if you didn't see one man and one woman...all that shyt is normal to you. The wild thing is that Cam's parents were married and he lived a relatively comfortable life (dad was a former pro athlete). He CHOSE chaos and disorder, despite having little real experience with it.
Be careful out there. It's easy to identify women who come from chaos/disorder and ignore them. But it's harder to identify the women who had a stable childhood, come from a stable family yet crave chaos. Those are the ones who will have you facing divorce after a couple years, wondering how the fukk did I miss the red flags.