My boys sister dated a 55 year old, white, recovering meth addict for 2 1/2 years. She was 19 or 20 iirc. Oh, and she got hooked on meth in the process and had to spend over a year in rehab.
She followed that up by getting into a relationship with a 51 year old caucasian for 3 years until he had to check back into rehab for drug use, but only after she fukked the 19 year old he was letting crash at his spot.
Shes finally realized her dream
and is with a 48 year old, white, single father ex-con who just seeded her up with twins that will likely have good hair and green eyes.
Point being, let these people live. Water seeks it's own level. Dudes hurt over the tale in the OP need to ask themselves if that was a family they'd ever be interested in getting involved with in the first place.