Brokenhearted Lurker need advice
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Professor Mac
Im African not black
Sounds to me like she is mentally checked out...
Are you and an her and good speaking terms.. If so have you brought up your concerns to her?
Are you and an her and good speaking terms.. If so have you brought up your concerns to her?
Right before this incident we spoke a little about a few issues then later that night before bed she came to me crying acknowledging her ways of being ( unappreciative, at times careless, taken for grant ect) expressing the stress and mental drain this last semester of school and other issues had plenty to do with it. Or so she says.. I don't know how genuine or orchestrated it was... It's not in her nature a sad way to put it I see her immature still and stubborn. The question I keep coming back to is when do you tell yourself this marriage is over. Does even questioning it mean you are there already?No offense, but your wife sounds like an unappreciative crumb snatcher. The unappreciativenes is the worst part.
BmoreGorilla
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Get out while you can breh
NoChillJones
Banned
Its never over....the true question is when do you get tired of trying....you could work it out without question....but what will the resolve be....
I will stay amicable. She can get overwhelmed at times and show more emotion during disagreements yea last time we spoke she acknowledged and was very emotional but that's out of her nature so I was questionable/un easy with how to take it. We've come along way in the relationship that's for sure but I just don't think she's willing to match my effort and that doesn't sit well with me
Get out while you can breh
Letting go will be the toughest for me. That's why I want to be sure that it is the right choice. It's not what I want but it might be the reality to a better future in the long run. I leave no stone unturned before I follow through.
If you leave out of frustration, you'll spend just as much time and energy trying to get back with her. Unless she's cheated, you're best bet is to ride it out.
O.T.I.S.
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Can't lie, it was tough to read and almost made me bush the thread
OP, talk to your wife bruh. If she's not willing to do her part then be prepared to bounce...
But before you talk to her make sure youre ready to bounce and it's something you want/willing to do without regrets
More or less yes. I know I've had my issues too but I'm willing to work towards her happiness more then she's willing for mine in my personal opinion I can't speak for her but it's what I feel
Professor Mac
Im African not black
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CarbonBraddock
You will be trolled
here is a tip op, hopefully it will help your marriage. when you type a lot of words, don't put all them shyts in one gigantic marble slab of a post, put paragraph indents in that mufukka. if you fail to do this, then someone will come in, make a snarky comment, then neg you, which i just did. no one on thecoli will take you seriously after that. hope this helps lol.
That's cool just here to gather info I'll be gone after this. Amazing site btw