Brehs who have been married 10+ years...Got a minute?

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Ryze said:
Do you still cuddle with your wives? Hold hands? All the cutesy shyt you used to do when you had that honeymoon phase/puppy love for one another? I'm asking because my only reference for the inner workings of a long-time relationship right now are my parents and I've NEVER seen them do anything like that. Maybe they do a good job of hiding it? From childhood to visiting every now and then, I've never seen it. I've seen them banter, I've seen them light up when talking to one another, and I hear the pet names and ego massaging. Zero contact though.
For a bit of context, neither are ugly gang and my dad isn't a betabux. He's ex-military, could that have hardened him?

If this sort of thing is the norm, being GMB and juggling a new woman every now and then for the honeymoon phase seems like the move. Maybe marrying a doormat and cheating in peace if you're absolutely set on building a traditional family. How are you 10+ year committed relationship brehs handling it?
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Yes, I still hug my wife for no reason. Tell her I love her out the blue. She thanks me for all I do, tells me how much she loves me out the blue. She acts like she is going to shank-me, when playing her alter-ego shankamena. I walk quietly up on her and she turns around, and I play shank her back for all of her play shanks. We play fight, joke, play the dozens.

To wrap it up, we still laugh and enjoy each other's company after almost 29 years together. How that expresses itself is in many ways, but it also is not something we do out in public. My daughter and little sister have seen some of it, but they only see small portions of it. Most of it happens when it is just us two alone, or on the spur of the moment when we are out in public, but not really in a visible area to pedestrians. We are silly & cutsey together, but mainly in private.

We have been caught before though, like when one of my wife's work colleagues told her she saw me rubbing her back, and we looking into each other eyes, when she peaked in the classroom window. She thought it was so beautiful, according to what my wife told me.
 
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Uachet said:
Yes, I still hug my wife for no reason. Tell her I love her out the blue. She thanks me for all I do, tells me how much she loves me out the blue. She acts like she is going to shank-me, when playing her alter-ego shankamena. I walk quietly up on her and she turns around, and I play shank her back for all of her play shanks. We play fight, joke, play the dozens.

To wrap it up, we still laugh and enjoy each other's company after almost 29 years together. How that expresses itself is in many ways, but it also is not something we do out in public. My daughter and little sister have seen some of it, but they only see small portions of it. Most of it happens when it is just us two alone, or on the spur of the moment when we are out in public, but not really in a visible area to pedestrians. We are silly & cutsey together, but mainly in private.

We have been caught before though, like when one of my wife's work colleagues told her she saw me rubbing her back, and we looking into each other eyes, when she peaked in the classroom window. She thought it was so beautiful, according to what my wife told me.
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29 years :salute:
 
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also, dont be afraid to bring up something nice that she may do. sometimes life can feel like a chore, or a string of endless chores, and it's nice to get recognition

exaggerate how good dinner is, note how clean a certain room is. you'd be surprised
 
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