Then why do Amara La Negra, Kelly Rowland, etc. talk about colorism? Colorism isn’t about just finding a date. Colorism is discrimination.You worried about who dudes dating you gay fam? Anywho this chick is nice and a great example when folks talk their “colorism” talk that shyt is for ugly people. I don’t know a dude that’s into black women that would turn her down.