I try to tell women this all the time. Make him wait a month. If he serious he'll wait. If he dips, he was gonna dip anyway but at least he can't walk away having skeeted on your forehead.
It doesn't even have to be a set amount of time. Make him wait until you are ready and you have thoroughly vetted him. Might be a month...might be 6
It's comical how women fight so hard for the right to be smutted out
. It's your body. So you should be careful with it, not bending over for everybody. There is only a small minority of men that can afford to
a chick that doesn't come up off them drawls immediately and like you said any guy that would do so isn't trying to settle down anyway.
Those memes were fukked up IMO. I could see using a pic of a chick looking dumb but to use a picture with that much emotion and pain in it and then talk about "looking for a dark street" is disturbing.