Breh's lets talk about losing the drive for a girl after u fukk her

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but he didn't say "if you want to wait that means you're playing games.". he said "yes, many women try to control men with their vagina by making them wait". he didn't say that's automatically what you are doing if you don't have sex right away.

that's what i meant when i said it's seems like you're trying to figure out a rule of thumb/formula out of it.

You could meet a woman and after a month and a half you still haven't slept with her and she's not playing a game with her puss. Just like you could meet a woman and she makes you wait 2 weeks and she's playing a game. it's not the amount of time, it's what's going on in her mind.
 
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Y'all are terrible...sex should be a bonus. ..every woman has a vagina ...if that is all that appeals to you no wonder you're having this issue
if women felt like sex should be the bonus then why do they base the majority of their value around their p*ssy? blame men for objectifying women when y'all objectify yourselves, brehettes
 

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but he didn't say "if you want to wait that means you're playing games.". he said "yes, many women try to control men with their vagina by making them wait". he didn't say that's automatically what you are doing if you don't have sex right away.

that's what i meant when i said it's seems like you're trying to figure out a rule of thumb/formula out of it.

You could meet a woman and after a month and a half you still haven't slept with her and she's not playing a game with her puss.
Just like you could meet a woman and she makes you wait 2 weeks and she's playing a game. it's not the amount of time, it's what's going on in her mind.

This is the point I was trying to make. He semi explained what he was trying to say earlier in this thread. He said that she's only playing games if she actually tells the guy that she only comfortable having sex with guys that are committed to her.
 

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i think porn addiction plays a huge role in this personally. most men nowdays are always "chasing the dragon". *thanks be to allah i'm out of the dating game* :blessed:
 
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This is the point I was trying to make. He semi explained what he was trying to say earlier in this thread. He said that she's only playing games if she actually tells the guy that she only comfortable having sex with guys that are committed to her.

examples of what women have said to me

on the first or second date

"if you were my boyfriend i'd be giving you bomb head"
"i love sex but only if im in a committed relationship"

basically trying to reel me in .

Now that i'm celibate :obama:, the look of disdain that comes across their face when they realize puzzy has no control over me :heh:
 

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examples of what women have said to me

on the first or second date

"if you were my boyfriend i'd be giving you bomb head"
"i love sex but only if im in a committed relationship"


basically trying to reel me in .

Now that i'm celibate :obama:, the look of disdain that comes across their face when they realize puzzy has no control over me :heh:

@the underlined - :huhldup: yeah I dunno about all that. They're saying "I will do this...if you be my bf". That's not what I meant. :whoa: If they really wanted to wait because that's what they feel comfortable with doing, they wouldn't be talking about sex at all.

@ the bold - Same here. After reading this thread...I'm probably gonna stay that way for life. :heh:
 

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@the underlined - :huhldup: yeah I dunno about all that. They're saying "I will do this...if you be my bf". That's not what I meant. :whoa:

@ the bold - Same here. After reading this thread...I'm probably gonna stay that way for life. :heh:

a celibate woman is more precious than rubies :noah:
 

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That post-nut clarity :ooh:

the way to avoid that is to not take bs from them. When you put up with their bs, you're basically lying to her and enabling her behavior towards you. You're allowing her to believe she's entitled to this (all to get the puss). I know we think it's worth it in the end but there is another way brehs...

when you keep it 100% with a chick and she still chooses you, she will submit to you before and after y'all fukk. there is a lot less BS and it's a beautiful thing because there is no stress, no lying, no biting your tongue. you just be you and she loves it. You won't lose the drive because nothing changes after.

nothing like fukking a chick and the post-nut clarity moment tells you "you know what? this chick is kinda cool...". if you feel that right after you nut and you don't feel like finding a way to be alone, that's a keeper right there ::ohlawd:

:ohlawd: :blessed: :youngsabo:
 

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Patrice said it best. A mans p*ssy is his charm, swag and character that he has to strengthen to pull girls. A womans p*ssy is her p*ssy. A mans p*ssy holds more value long term.
 
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