Brehs I want to hit this single mother up... Again

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Tell her that you're a virgin and that if she plays her cards right, she can be your first.

Some chicks like being a dudes first, SOME, not all.

she already know, and she already told me she'd love to take my v-card
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/21-y...ove-to-take-my-virginity.171032/#post-6499178

i guess ive been dragging my feet because im afraid of rejection and on top of that i was away at school but now i home for winter break...


Act on your experience, however little it may be. Trust your instincts. You will know which girls you can hit and which your not ready for.



What do you think you should do?

i honestly dont know... i mean i havent text her for almost 2 weeks and i had her number since the day after thanksgiving and i NEVER called her. you dont think itd be weird just all of the sudden calling her out of the blue?
 

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because im a virgin... a 23 year old one at that

Man once you stop worrying about being a 23 year old virgin, the p*ssy will come...it may be an old saying, but you are putting the p*ssy on a pedestal.. its not that serious and once you understand that, p*ssy will start flying at you
 

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Man once you stop worrying about being a 23 year old virgin, the p*ssy will come...it may be an old saying, but you are putting the p*ssy on a pedestal.. its not that serious and once you understand that, p*ssy will start flying at you

i tried that for first ~20 years of my life i would ignore girls because i used to think if a girl was attracted to me then she would approach me:snoop:. in fact i didnt even start actively approaching females til i was 20. i spent my whole life not trying to get p*ssy and the only thing it resulted in was me being a 23 year old virgin. are you saying that i was on the right path before and that i just got impatient and may lose my virginity later on in life like late 20s or even in 30s or 40s?
 

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i tried that for first ~20 years of my life i would ignore girls because i used to think if a girl was attracted to me then she would approach me:snoop:. in fact i didnt even start actively approaching females til i was 20. i spent my whole life not trying to get p*ssy and the only thing it resulted in was me being a 23 year old virgin. are you saying that i was on the right path before and that i just got impatient and may lose my virginity later on in life like late 20s or even in 30s or 40s?

Man I didn't say anything about avoiding p*ssy...that's opposite...you gotta be aggressively confident, not just aggressive...if the women don't see you are confident, they are going to take your aggressiveness for being thirsty, and real women hate that. You gotta relax and understand that you are going to get p*ssy...you don't believe that though...I never mentioned p*ssy to my first girl...but sooner or later we started fooling around, and bam p*ssy...I was aggressive in getting her, and women love that..they love when you are aggressive with them when you are kissing, fukking around, etc. Dont even think about the p*ssy and it become automatic

Maybe you need to buy some p*ssy to get it out your system...then u won't think about it anymore because u are scaring yourself out of p*ssy right now
 

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she already know, and she already told me she'd love to take my v-card
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/21-y...ove-to-take-my-virginity.171032/#post-6499178

i guess ive been dragging my feet because im afraid of rejection and on top of that i was away at school but now i home for winter break...




i honestly dont know... i mean i havent text her for almost 2 weeks and i had her number since the day after thanksgiving and i NEVER called her. you dont think itd be weird just all of the sudden calling her out of the blue?

Why not? All phone calls are "out of the blue". You waiting for a shooting star to make that call?

You shouldn't be afraid of rejection. Every Saiyan gets stronger after a fight, even if they lose.:birdman:
Your going to take alot of L's before you get that Double U. And that's because you havn't learned how to deal with fear and rejection.

Let me skip you a few levels on rejection. Women are closed flowers, walls, w/e. Don't give her anything to reject. See what she will accept, and give a little of that, and then more as she opens and earns it. Your tossing way too much at her too soon.

Hell, even flip the way you think about your virginity. Instead of "losing" your V-Card think of yourself as "rewarding a deserving female with it".
Think of yourself as something worth having (self esteem). Your virginity isn't a big deal to people who have had sex. Your making it a big deal. That's what we don't like about virgins. Yeah you want your first time to be special, but don't make it a hurdle. It going to happen, and when it does, you won't be stressing over it like this. Mellow out. Be casual. Be unassuming.

I'd say, call her, get rejected or w/e and just deal with it. Lay in bed and run the situation through your head after the fact. Think about "what would the Me who got in them guts would have done?" And ask yourself why you didn't do it in the first place. Then don't dwell on it. You got them experience points. You start leveling up when you feel more relaxed and less challenged by this (fear), when you and your perspective opens up.
 
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