she already know, and she already told me she'd love to take my v-card
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/21-y...ove-to-take-my-virginity.171032/#post-6499178
i guess ive been dragging my feet because im afraid of rejection and on top of that i was away at school but now i home for winter break...
i honestly dont know... i mean i havent text her for almost 2 weeks and i had her number since the day after thanksgiving and i NEVER called her. you dont think itd be weird just all of the sudden calling her out of the blue?
Why not? All phone calls are "out of the blue". You waiting for a shooting star to make that call?
You shouldn't be afraid of rejection. Every Saiyan gets stronger after a fight, even if they lose.
Your going to take alot of L's before you get that Double U. And that's because you havn't learned how to deal with fear and rejection.
Let me skip you a few levels on rejection. Women are closed flowers, walls, w/e.
Don't give her anything to reject. See what she will accept, and give a little of that, and then more as she opens and earns it.
Your tossing way too much at her too soon.
Hell, even flip the way you think about your virginity. Instead of "losing" your V-Card think of yourself as "
rewarding a deserving female with it".
Think of yourself as something worth having (self esteem). Your virginity isn't a big deal to people who have had sex. Your making it a big deal. That's what we don't like about virgins. Yeah you want your first time to be special, but don't make it a hurdle. It going to happen, and when it does, you won't be stressing over it like this.
Mellow out. Be casual. Be unassuming.
I'd say, call her, get rejected or w/e and just deal with it. Lay in bed and run the situation through your head after the fact. Think about "what would the Me who got in them guts would have done?" And ask yourself why you didn't do it in the first place. Then don't dwell on it. You got them experience points. You start leveling up when you feel more relaxed and less challenged by this (fear), when you and your perspective opens up.