Brehs, I love black women.

[Uachet]

I reserve my love for family and friends. While I care for and want the best for my people, which includes all Black people no matter their origin and beliefs, I can not say I love them as a matter of course . My concern for my people is a form of enlightened self-interest. The better my people do, the better the future will be for my descendents. So while I will do what I feel is needed to better my ethnicity and to a lesser degree the Black diaspora over all, I will not say I do it out of love for them, but instead of out of love for my own family & friends and a concern for their future.

So the better Black women are doing, the better my family's future will be and the same for Black men. The more of us that are doing well, have self-respect, and make positive decisions; the larger pool of possible fit mates my descendents will have in the future. The greater the economic fitness of our people over all, the better our descendants' children will be doing over all. We all are connected organically with each other, and so our own triumphs and suffering well be shared among each other (no matter how far away we think we are from the conditions of others).

My concern for my people and love of my own family and friends compel me to use what wealth I have and may gain (in money and time) to help better the conditions of our people where I can. It also compels me to point out what we are doing right and what we are doing wrong, so that we are able to make better decisions and hopefully move towards having better living conditions as a collective. It is why I am willing to admonish and praise the actions of our people when warranted, while also doing what I can, with my money and time, to help better our people. I do care, but again I can't say I do it out of love for those not in my group of family and friends , but out of enlightened self-interest for the previous mentioned group's futures.

 

[MajesticLion]

Price above rubies.

 

[Fresh]

They're so misunderstood.

They've balled up all this pain and have to pretend to be tough for a world that doesn't appreciate them.

But they're easily some of the kindest, tender hearted women if you come across as a man and don't view them as a threat.

As a black man I feel actually disgusted when I see a black man with a white woman or a black woman with a white man. I can't or imagine anyone but a black woman by my side and there's so many sistas that entertaining a non-BW makes no sense to me. Then you add the different cultures:ADOS, Caribbean, African, Latina. It's a wrap.

In the middle of this black on black gender war I just felt the need to express that. Black women we love you and when you got a black woman in your corner you feel invincible. Mashaa Allah.

everything you said is great, however you can post some pics of some beautiful Black women in this thread, their beauty is underrated too because they've underrepresented in the media

you don't have to post nudes are anything lol

in all seriousness, good post breh

 

[Commish]

OP..

I have no issue with you professing your love for Blk women, but you could have left it @ that & not added your disdain for Blk men/non-Blk women unions into the mix.

Thing is, your love for Blk women has nothing to do with anyone else. Ppl have the right to pick n choose their partners & if you gonna push an anti miscegenist line, then plz be fair about it.

I wanna the same static for Blk men who are incarcerated as well as gay Blk men. Don't selectively politic solely against Blk men with non-Blk partners.

Oh, need you to holla @ Blk women who are with non-Blk men as well as gay Blk women as well.

Do aforementioned & your stance would be stronger..

Respectfully,

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

nikka really said "tldr: more hate pleaze"


god bless yall little hateful hearts

 

[mag357]

Black women should know better than to call the cops on innocent black men. They are the ones parroting “protect all black men” on social media.

They are broken.
Women in general are broken. This whole shyt is broken.
U get u another race of woman, shyt won't be all peaches and cream.

I understand your frustration tho

 

[MasterThought]

I've only read the OP and the first few replies but I'm pretty sure this thread has devolved into pure poison that I don't want to put into my head so I'll avoid it.

 

[Lord_nikon]

I love all of them,,, the chocolates,, caramels,, Vanilla pudding ones

 

[Space Cowboy]

ADOS or Continental? As long as you know Brother Alhaji Malik El Shabazz and General Khalid are my imams, we ain't got beef.

Ados and Malcolm died a Sunni.

If you’re disgusted by seeing a black woman with a white man or a black man with a white woman you have to fix what is wrong inside & why you are so mentally fragile

Mentally fragile? I don't have to like it.

 

[Space Cowboy]

everything you said is great, however you can post some pics of some beautiful Black women in this thread, their beauty is underrated too because they've underrepresented in the media

you don't have to post nudes are anything lol

in all seriousness, good post breh

I ain't posting no pictures. Often when black men say they love black women they just mean from a sexual context and just highlight booty and shyt when black women are more than that.

 

[Budda]

I love women who love me

So you love men

 

[Studious one]

We love yall too

Yes we do!!!!!!!!

 

[Studious one]

This is the part where an otherwise uplifting thread goes off the rails

You see it, right?

 

[KidJSoul]

Bro... I'ma be honest.

The shyt I wrote was super clear.
I don't think I could make it any clearer

You're saying we have to endure and learn to love for things to get better? That makes no sense.

 

[Studious one]

Sure.

In an ideal world we would love black women to just naturally submit to us. But that's not the case. Consider submission like respect: it's something to be earned, not begged or bartered.

Unfortunately for us, this is a white man's world and a woman's nature is to seek the highest tier, strongest men. This is why Asian women do Olympic track and field jumps to bag a white man: social capital. It's also why, for the most part, white women are compliant to white men. Essentially, white men have conquered and you must accept that they have conquered and are seen as number one. We were enslaved and subjected to Jim Crow and emasculated. As much as I'm pro-black, that's a bad record for our men and men are supposed to protect women. Think of it from a woman's eyes. So unfortunately, we as black men, must prove we are worth following to a black woman. You as a man must always prove your worth to any women, but black women will rightfully have a stronger filter.

Women can't help it. Allah embued them with this as a defense mechanism. It's in their nature. So when they say,"I don't need no man" it's a lie. A facade. A mask in order to protect her from hurt because she was disappointed by so many men in her life. When sociologically studied, it can be used as warfare against populations. In their studies, white people have used all of this against black people to further divide us as they use human nature and women's nature against by taking black fathers out of the picture with mass incarceration, things like red lining;etc. This makes the women more masculine and then the men don't know how to handle it. The result? Families destroyed. Doesn't help that black culture overwhelmingly infantilizes boys and has lower standards on them than the girls. This is also why black women, and to a lesser extent latino women, go for gangsters: because historically they have lacked protection. For a defense mechanism they go for not just masculine men, but hyper masculine men. It's an over correction. Being masculine just doesn't cut it. In a black woman's eyes, a gangsta is more capable of protecting her even if it's wrong. But it doesn't matter because it's how she feels.

So in order to get the submission you crave from black women you have to show you're worthy of it. Once that falls into place black women are much easier to "tame" and you don't get problems from the vast majority of them. The majority of black women just want a real black man and some masculine energy so that they can finally breathe in a world that demands they lift everything up on their shoulders. Women say they're strong. The truth is that women don't want to be. Strength is what a man is for.

Brother, thank you for your gracious kind words. I’m going to get out of this thread now because I see the bullshyt is already starting. Wishing you a great day king. Sending you nothing but positive vibes. Much love.