It's easy to fake moaning and shaking so you can get a dude the hell up off you.
It's hard to fake those internal p*ssy flutters when you've been taken over the edge or the sheer sensitivity of everything down there or the fact that once you've orgasmed just a few strokes will push you right over the edge again.
I feel bad for any chick who has had mad random dikks and had to fake orgasms b/c the dudes she with don't give a fukk about her enough to get her there or care.
That's also yet another reason why women are reticent about fukking. It's harder to get that orgasm with randoms, and dudes will brag, brag, brag, brag all day long but leave you unfulfilled.
If you literally can orgasm intensely with just your finger until you get to know a guy then that's exactly what you'll do rather than take a chance on wack sex, stds and lies.
Regardless however, imagine that intensity coupled with emotional intensity of being fully invested in your partner. Thats the shyt that have men wondered why we act like we do and why we are willing to take risks on another dude even after heartbreak. B/c once you get it right, it's fukkin spirit shattering.