Brehs, can we come to a consensus on what exactly TRICKING is?

[The Jewnited States]

Was having this discussion with a co-worker last night and he's 100 percent anti tricking on hoes. So I asked him what about at bar? Is he buying drinks? He said of course he will buy drinks, but he ain't buying gifts (unless he's locked her down in a real monogamous relationship), he ain't paying bills, and he ain't paying prostitutes

Another breh jumped in the convo to say that he WILL pay a prostitute for p*ssy but he ain't paying a chicks phone bill or rent unless he's been smashing for a while.

Me personally? I don't drink anymore and have never bought a woman a drink unless I knew her prior to going out. I'll pay for food on a date cuz that's just how I was taught as a kid. But I don't pay bills and I don't buy gifts outside of little $5-$10 bullshyts here and there.

It got me to thinking, what exactly is tricking? Paying bills? Lavish gifts? Car payments? A cup of coffee?

I also got a homeboy who is HARD ON HOES to the max and will literally never drop a penny on a broad and makes it a point of pride to get every dollar he can out of a bytch with thinking that the return on investment is better if he spends all his money on himself because that way he attracts more women into HIS orbit instead of getting pulled into theirs. I see his point, but he also spends so much time and effort on his appearance and outfits that it don't seem worth it


What say you colibrehs?

 

[Admiral Ackbar]

I just do what feels right. I'm not paying a bill unless we're exclusive and monogamous.

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

Tricking is giving money or money "in kind" i.e. gift cards, bags, plane tickets, rent, bills in exchange for sex. Going on a date is not tricking, buying your fukk buddy a gift for Christmas because you are in the xmas spirit isn't tricking.

 

[Canada Goose]

Howard Marshall was the first example of a trick in my lifetime

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Nerds, Losers and Lames with no life experience got the whole thing messed up cause they listen to charlatans all day with a thumb up their ass.

Money is gonna obviously come into play so anything that involves a consistent relationship/interactions where money ain't always involved, i.e. casual shyt isn't tricking

If you trying to butter up a chick to be your woman an maybe wife down the road, that's not tricking

Tricking is purely "here xyz lemme slide on you" that's tricking. Like if you can't call her to do you a favor, then you know deal between both parties

personally to me, it don't matter, as long as it's legal between consenting adults, do you.

 

[lowkey0z]

if you're on a backpage type of website, on fig street, or doing that passport bro shyt out the country and you're getting services in exchange for money, you're trickin'

 

[colicolicoli]

It’s only tricking if the girl only fukks with you because of the “tricks.”

 

[T.H.E. Goat]

Spending money on women to impress them or make them like you

 

[Don Snow]

If a woman genuinely likes you and you do nice things for her here and there without being in a committed relationship it’s not tricking



Paying for some nails and some Uber eats once in awhile don’t make you a sucka

 

[folasade]

To me, tricking is paying for sexual favors or the girlfriend/boyfriend experience where the interaction is solely transactional. Paying for drinks or other things from time to time isn't tricking. Sex tourism is a prime example of tricking. As people are self aware then there shouldn't be an issue with either.

 

[The Jewnited States]

Spending money on women to impress them or make them like you

A lot of the online content these days will tell men to GET THEIR MONEY UP to attract women. Isn't that the same thing as spending money to impress them?

 

[Maruchan]

It's NOT tricking if you got it

 

[T.H.E. Goat]

A lot of the online content these days will tell men to GET THEIR MONEY UP to attract women. Isn't that the same thing as spending money to impress them?

Social media fukked the game up, I hate how it's now cool to use your money as a magnet for women...same way it's cool for women to show off their bodies for a quick buck

All that get your money up and go to the gym is bullshyt when I can walk a few blocks and see hella homeless couples walking around happily in love

 

[The Jewnited States]

Social media fukked the game up, I hate how it's now cool to use your money as a magnet for women...same way it's cool for women to show off their bodies for a quick buck

All that get your money up and go to the gym is bullshyt when I can walk a few blocks and see hella homeless couples walking around happily in love

If I have to show my money to attract women, how do I know they like me and not the prospect of access to my money?

Sometimes I'm glad I'm nearly broke because I know every girl that messes with me does it because she likes who I am as a person

 

[Jasonmask]

All that in op is tricking. I’ve had enough sex without doing anything other than showing up but I have tricked in the past for an array of reasons