Brehettes, how do you move in a room full of bros?

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Even growing up with big bros Im still weiry about male company. Im gonna get into this volunteer ish and I just learned its 98% AA males. Typically guys just ignore me when Im the only girl but sometimes they hold the convo till I leave cuz they know its some dumb shyt. smh

How do you feel? How do they treat you? I think it has something to do with whe
 

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It's easy if you're a or were a tomboy. Just be chill and crack jokes. Get involved in the convo as well, if you're one of the few chicks there..you're good to go.
I went to an event where I was the only chick and it was fun hah. Super laid-back, enjoyed the convos, they were even surprised I knew a few of the baseball players and shyt.
They were really nice, welcoming and funny as heck.
 

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I'm more comfortable around guys than girls since I grew up with all brothers so I usually just joke around with them
 

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Nope.
They probably notice you being wary and act wary around you too. I think that goes for any group of people though; if they can tell you're not comfortable, no one is comfortable period.
 

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When I'm in a room full of people with a job to do, I do the job and KIM. If it's a party or club, I dance/eat and KIM lol.

After a while, I'll get a feeling for people. I like to observe first. So eventually someone comes up to me or I'll go up to someone ask questions and or start a conversation.

Im a loner. I treat everyone the same but guys usually approach me first as opposed to females so that's who I'm chill with. Females I might start a convo off their clothes or hair, ask them where they got it from but that's about it unless we click.
 

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Even growing up with big bros Im still weiry about male company. Im gonna get into this volunteer ish and I just learned its 98% AA males. Typically guys just ignore me when Im the only girl but sometimes they hold the convo till I leave cuz they know its some dumb shyt. smh

How do you feel? How do they treat you? I think it has something to do with whe
U think it has sumthin to do wit wut? :lupe:
 

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Whenever I'm in a room full of guys they all try to tell me jokes, fake laughing is so tiring. :why:
This shyt needs that First World Problems meme with it.

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I don't really treat it any differently than if I'm with a mixed group; I do what I gotta do and keep it pushing.

I'm in IT, so all I deal with are dudes; I'm the only chick on my team and one of maybe 25 women in the entire department. You just eventually learn to deal with it.
 

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Even growing up with big bros Im still weiry about male company. Im gonna get into this volunteer ish and I just learned its 98% AA males. Typically guys just ignore me when Im the only girl but sometimes they hold the convo till I leave cuz they know its some dumb shyt. smh

How do you feel? How do they treat you? I think it has something to do with whe
got something against African American males:childplease:
 

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I don't really treat it any differently than if I'm with a mixed group; I do what I gotta do and keep it pushing.

I'm in IT, so all I deal with are dudes; I'm the only chick on my team and one of maybe 25 women in the entire department. You just eventually learn to deal with it.
Do thy know that ur married ?
 
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