Perception is reality
Liberals have a hard time accepting or acknowledging that their parties and movements are often spearheaded by dysfunctional metas
Conservatives have dysfunctional elements but they're adamant about front facing with conservative values. This makes all the difference in the world
If being liberal is so commonly associated with dysfunction y'all should probably dig deep into why that's so
Conservatism is met with authoritative measures and violent rebellion against it. That's why a lot of 3rd world countries have wars breaking out on it and stagnated building of basic infrastructure. Some places like you love, like Russia, have rolling blackouts and people still living like the 1800s. Conservatism never lasts for that reason alone.
To tell people how to live by force, is basically putting your safely and life in danger.
Yes we need 2 parent households and bigger extended families raising kids, but not at the means of (figurative) gunpoint.