What I'm sayin is does a nikka like him even have tha luxury of being able to be choosy when it comes to race? Lets say tha first quality woman tht shows him interest is white. Realistically is he gonna turn her down waiting for a quality black woman to hit his line when he knows tha chances of any woman of worth fukking with him are slim? Tha truth is hes at an extreme disadvantage when it comes to relationships, same as extremely ugly or obese ppl, they're just happy they line is getting hit. Of course in a perfect world he would be with his own but i cannot reasonably fault him.
Tht can't be compared to shunning your own women based on racial stereotypes (ie black women are too aggressive, too ratchet) to put white women on a pedestal, especially when we both know if you tried to get with a white woman you found attractive, and she said she didn't fukk with black guys bcuz they're too 'aggressive and thuggish' you would be offended.
Ok.
Why are we acting like the average pawger isn't deficient somewhere, as well?
Everybody forces the "swaggy w/ game" stereotype onto every brotha, and expect all to live up to that, and we all know MOTHERfukkIN' well there ain't no shortage of black men out there who fail to live up to that. A lot of brothas online and irl, front like they have all the game in the world, because they don't want to seen as less than as a black man. Online forums are havens for socially deficient people, 'cause it is easier/less stressful to socialize virtually.
I'd bet life-changing money, the average pawger would be with sistas if they could get the sistas they want. What happens with a lot of pawgers is - which is no different than what happen to a lot of weird black women - you spend years wanting chicks that are beyond your ability to get, then end up becoming bitter with all black women, because you couldn't have the women you want.
In my experience, most pawgers aren't normal. Something is almost always off. This is why only a minority of brothas are into it. If they could fit the norms, and get the sistas they wanted, it's not to say they wouldn't fukk a white chick, but they're complicating their lives socially by hopping the fence. It'd be far easier to just be with a black woman.
My case is, to the best of my knowledge, less common. I was fukking with black women only, and satisfied with the quality of women I dealt with, until I hit 30, and my sexual default shifted from 'short, chubby to bbw, little to no gut, bottom curvy, black female with a cute/pretty face' to "short, chubby to bbw, little to no gut, bottom curvy, white female with a cute/pretty face."
Imagine your favorite food. Imagine suddenly not wanting that shyt all anymore, and suddenly desiring above all else, something you'd only really fukk with if nothing else was around.
THAT is what happened with me.