I agree but at the same time I realize a lot shyt is overrated. At this stage in life, I don't need much to get by. I don't have a family / kids yet, so this is a great time to build that cushion, safety net imo.
With that said, i'm frugal not cheap if I see something I like I buy it. If I want to go on a trip or nice dinner, I don't put a limit on it.
Delayed gratification is the name of the game.
Plus I feel as african americans we gotta play a different game of accumulating a surplus of funds, because collectively we are more likely to be affected by economic downturns, experience poverty, support family members, as well as many other stressors.
I can't just relax, when I look around my city and see more people who share my complexion, looking like they're struggling to survive, living check to check or in the streets homeless.
There's no compassion in the world for being poor and black. So I go into overdrive with saving, I've been broke and I ain't going back.
fukk that
If that means I gotta be up 1am securing my future and then so be it.