Body count determines character?

[Sandy_Cheeks]

See, good guys are exciting too... just depends on what you find exciting, I guess LOL

I thank God (and my parents LOL) that I had older sisters to watch and see how NOT to do sh1t... they're in good relationships now, but seeing some of the dudes they dated when I was younger made me go

This is true!!

Yea, I wish I had older sisters to help my ass out. I think back on my dating history and just shake my damn head.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

The only thing you could know about someone that would make it safe to have sex with them is recent std test results.

Catching an STD is only one risk of having sex. Having children is another, you shouldn't be sleeping with people that you couldn't handle a pregnancy situation with.

Also it's impossible to have std records for a bunch of people at one time. If your picking up men/women at the club and going home with them, you have no idea what type of person they are, or if they are healthy of not.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

You don't think that's a bit contradictory?

You're saying that if it turns out that she doesn't have a lot of sexual partners, then she's cool. So that would mean you had to think that she wasn't an okay person before just because of her sexual history, right? I think that's judging someone.

You have beautiful breast meats by the way.

My breast meats thank you for the compliment

naw, what im saying is (and im probably fukcin it all up tryin to explain) that if I learned of her sexual past and I meet her, I will judge/weigh what I heard about her vs how she really is and make my conclusion then regardless of if whatever I heard is true.

If it turns out that she has a very sexual past but shes a sweet girl, I find nothing wrong with that. I will still be friends with her. I dont discredit someone based upon how they choose to live their life.

If it turns out that she doesnt have a promiscuous past... I wont treat her or deal with her any differently.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Catching an STD is only one risk of having sex. Having children is another, you shouldn't be sleeping with people that you couldn't handle a pregnancy situation with.

The thing is, you could very well catch an STD even with having a wife/husband. Unless you are taking an STD test before every time you have sex, you're always at risk for STDs because you can't control who someone else is having sex with and how they have sex. But we also have protection and other available options/common sense to prevent such.

Second part is true, but there are multiple avenues people can take to avoid pregnancy. In this day and age, if you are getting someone pregnant by mistake, then you were just being careless. There's birth control, vasectomies, condoms and pull out, etc.

 

[Blown Moon]

This don't make any sense. If you wouldn't view her the same way then of course you judge people for their actions.

I would view her the same way. I'd judge someone for killing another person, not for getting their rocks off. Casual sex has been demonized by a lot of people and it's silly to me.

 

[Blown Moon]

My breast meats thank you for the compliment

naw, what im saying is (and im probably fukcin it all up tryin to explain) that if I learned of her sexual past and I meet her, I will judge/weigh what I heard about her vs how she really is and make my conclusion then regardless of if whatever I heard is true.

If it turns out that she has a very sexual past but shes a sweet girl, I find nothing wrong with that. I will still be friends with her. I dont discredit someone based upon how they choose to live their life.

If it turns out that she doesnt have a promiscuous past... I wont treat her or deal with her any differently.

Okay I got you now.

The thing is, you could very well catch an STD even with having a wife/husband. Unless you are taking an STD test before every time you have sex, you're always at risk for STDs because you can't control who someone else is having sex with and how they have sex.

Second part is true, but there are multiple avenues people can take to avoid pregnancy. In this day and age, if you are getting someone pregnant by mistake, then you were just being careless. There's birth control, vasectomies, condoms and pull out, etc.

@MeachTheMonster This is what I was trying to say.

I also agree with the second part but like Champ said you can get around the whole pregnancy thing.

Pull out is not a reliable option though breh.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Okay I got you now.



@MeachTheMonster This is what I was trying to say.

I also agree with the second part but like Champ said you can get around the whole pregnancy thing.

Pull out is not a reliable option though breh.

Of course not pull out by itself, but in combination

I always wear condoms and I always pull out even though I got the condom on. I've NEVER gotten a woman pregnant (not past the morning after pill time period and I only did that once) and I've NEVER had an STD and I'm on the side of what most people would call overly promiscuous.

You'd be hard pressed to get someone pregnant while wearing a condom and pulling out. Most girls today are on birth control so add that in. And then you can buy a pill. If you get a chick preggo today or if that's a worry of your's, you're not using all the tools at your expense or your uninformed.

I would view her the same way. I'd judge someone for killing another person, not for getting their rocks off. Casual sex has been demonized by a lot of people and it's silly to me.

Yeah. I think people are still struggling with the idea that everyone does not view sex in the same way as them. Sex is a biological function/craving that we have decided to put unnatural and man made rules on.

With ample enough means to protect yourself, I'm not seeing the big deal. People are having raw sex in marriage and still catching HIV/AIDS/STDs from their partner. If you nut in someone, there's a pill you can go get the very next day.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

The thing is, you could very well catch an STD even with having a wife/husband. Unless you are taking an STD test before every test, you're always at risk for STDs because you can't control who someone else is having sex with and how they have sex.

I understand this and that's my point exactly. The more you know about a person, and the more time you spend with them, the more you reduce your risk of experiencing the adverse affects of sex. There is no way to know 100% but its better to take the risk with someone you actually know, and have talked to about these things.

Second part is true, but there are multiple avenues people can take to avoid pregnancy. In this day and age, if you are getting someone pregnant by mistake, then you were just being careless. There's birth control, vasectomies, condoms and pull out, etc.

No contraception method is 100% reliable, and they all loose reliability if they aren't used correctly. You stand a better chance of knowing if your partner is using them correctly if you actually know them and have spoken to them about the use of contraception, and even then it's not 100% definite that they will work, so both parties should have an understanding of what should/will happen if a pregnancy occurs.


My point is anytime you have sex you are taking a risk. Taking that risk with one person who you know and understand to be safe is a much better choice than taking that risk with a total stranger. If you allow your want for physical pleasure to put you in danger a lot, then you probably don't have good self control, or you don't understand the scope of your actions, which is an indicator of poor judgement.

 

[Blown Moon]

If you allow your want for physical pleasure to put you in danger a lot, then you probably don't have good self control, or you don't understand the scope of your actions, which is an indicator of poor judgement.

Were just going to have to agree to disagree.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I always wear condoms and I always pull out even though I got the condom on. I've NEVER gotten a woman pregnant (not past the morning after pill time period and I only did that once) and I've NEVER had an STD and I'm on the side of what most people would call overly promiscuous.

Lets be real. This isn't very common, your situation is probably one in a thousand when it comes to people who have a lot of sexual partners. And even then if that one girl would have refused to take that morning after pill then you'd be a father today.

It's risky business champ

 

[DaChampIsHere]

I understand this and that's my point exactly. The more you know about a person, and the more time you spend with them, the more you reduce your risk of experiencing the adverse affects of sex. There is no way to know 100% but its better to take the risk with someone you actually know, and have talked to about these things.



No contraception method is 100% reliable, and they all loose reliability if they aren't used correctly. You stand a better chance of knowing if your partner is using them correctly if you actually know them and have spoken to them about the use of contraception, and even then it's not 100% definite that they will work, so both parties should have an understanding of what should/will happen if a pregnancy occurs.


My point is anytime you have sex you are taking a risk. Taking that risk with one person who you know and understand to be safe is a much better choice than taking that risk with a total stranger. If you allow your want for physical pleasure to put you in danger a lot, then you probably don't have good self control, or you don't understand the scope of your actions, which is an indicator of poor judgement.

Your first point means nothing. If you are having raw sex in a marriage, you are being just as careless as the people you are judging unless your are tracking your woman 24/7 or taking STD test before you have sex. The way you feel safe/comforted by having sex with only your wife and assuming she is being faithful, is the same thing others get from strapping up and taking the necessary safety precautions. It's 2 sides of the same coin.

So now, you're trying to dismiss using contraceptive methods in combination with very low failure rates? If you get someone pregnant, you fukked up. Let's stop excusing people for acting stupid. People have every excuse as to why the fukked up "The pill failed", "the condom broke", "I couldn't pull out in time", "I didn't wanna buy a plan B". Really? That's your fault. You fukked up 4 times.

You maybe taking a risk with one person but there's stil no way for you to know what that person is doing 100% and there's always means you can take to protect yourself. If you are smart and know how to put a condom on, you aren't putting yourself in danger.

Lets be real. This isn't very common, your situation is probably one in a thousand when it comes to people who have a lot of sexual partners. And even then if that one girl would have refused to take that morning after pill then you'd be a father today.

It's risky business champ

No such thing as refusing to take a pill when you're in college tryna pledge a sorority. No need to consider having a baby from a drunken night.

That's another thing, dudes can't be pickin' bum hoes to fukk around with. People just be stupid.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Your first point means nothing. If you are having raw sex in a marriage, you are being just as careless as the people you are judging unless your are tracking your woman 24/7 or taking STD test before you have sex. The way you feel safe/comforted by having sex with only your wife and assuming she is being faithful, is the same thing others get from strapping up and taking the necessary safety precautions.

Not true at all bruh. Std's are spread most commonly between unmarried promiscuous people, this is a fact no matter how you try to spin it. Promiscuous sex with multiple partners is always more risky than sex with one person, it just is. Even if the one person has an std, 5 people could have 5 different std's so it's still riskier to engage in sex with 5 than 1. Add that to the fact that having one std raises your risk to catch others and it is a definite fact that multiple partners are more risky than one partner.

So now, you're trying to dismiss using contraceptive methods in combination with very low failure rates? If you get someone pregnant, you fukked up. Let's stop excusing people for acting stupid. people have every excuse as to why the fukked up "The pill failed", "the condom broke", "I couldn't pull out in time", "I didn't wanna buy a plan B". Really? That's your fault.

I'm not dismissing anything and you're right if you get someone pregnant but again I'm talking about reducing risk. I'm saying you always run a risk of so it's a better idea to run that risk with one person that you know and have an understanding with, than it is to run that risk with multiple people.

You maybe taking a risk with one person but there's stil no way for you to know what that person is doing 100% and there's always means you can take to protect yourself. If you are smart and know how to put a condom on, you aren't putting yourself in danger.

There are means you can take personally, but none of them are 100% reliable. There's condom, birth control, pull out, tubes tied, babies walking around right now, just like there are people who've caught std's through condoms.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Not true at all bruh. Std's are spread most commonly between unmarried promiscuous people, this is a fact no matter how you try to spin it. Promiscuous sex with multiple partners is always more risky than sex with one person, it just is. Even if the one person has an std, 5 people could have 5 different std's so it's still riskier to engage in sex with 5 than 1. Add that to the fact that having one std raises your risk to catch others and it is a definite fact that multiple partners are more risky than one partner.



I'm not dismissing anything and you're right if you get someone pregnant but again I'm talking about reducing risk. I'm saying you always run a risk of so it's a better idea to run that risk with one person that you know and have an understanding with, than it is to run that risk with multiple people.


There are means you can take personally, but none of them are 100% reliable. There's condom, birth control, pull out, tubes tied, babies walking around right now, just like there are people who've caught std's through condoms.

They spread because they aren't protecting themselves. Not because they are having sex. Actually, the older segment of the population has the some of the most STD rates. You know why? Because they don't use condoms an they aren't well educated on STDs. It's really nothing to do with the fact that they are having sex but the way they are having it. It's supplemented by so many other things. Science/Studies disputes what you are saying. Studies show that Africans are less promiscuous that Americans but still have HIV/STD rates that are soaring past ours.

If you're doing everything I listed, there's not gonna be a If it happens, it's because you wanted it to happen. If anyone tells me they took all those methods and still popped up with a baby, they lyin' or they are holding god's second coming.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

They spread because they aren't protecting themselves. Not because they are having sex. Actually, the older segment of the population has the some of the most STD rates. You know why? Because they don't use condoms an they aren't well educated on STDs. It's really nothing to do with the fact that they are having sex but the way they are having it. It's supplemented by so many other things. Science/Studies disputes what you are saying. Studies show that Africans are less promiscuous that Americans but still have HIV/STD rates that are soaring past ours.

If you're doing everything I listed, there's not gonna be a If it happens, it's because you wanted it to happen. If anyone tells me they took all those methods and still popped up with a baby, they lyin' or they are holding god's second coming.

Married couples never protect themselves yet they still have a very low occurrence of std's. People who are in commited relationships are more likely to have protected sex then those out picking up people at the bar. People who have multiple partners are more likely to have unprotected sex with those partners. Obviously there are always exceptions, but for the most part these statements hold true.

When my wife got pregnant with my daughter. I was using the pull out method AND she was on birth control, I know she was taking them because I had an alarm on my phone and I made sure she took it everyday. She still got pregnant and the doctor said its not very uncommon for this to happen.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Prudes aren't automatically good and freaks aren't necessarily bad.

Pretty much sums it up right here