I'm trying to get how she's clowning her husband for working to provide for her, this dude is going to end up raising somebody else baby
Lol I like posting marriage stories
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VodkaAndDietCoke 1 year ago
A fuking nightmare. I will NEVER get married again, the pain, the money, the fuking court system, just having to sit there and take it up the fukking ass like a nice little bytch because if I didn't, I would get shytted on, even though my ex would hide the kids from me and the courts wouldn't do shyt, which she still does. And don't get me started on my fuking child support. Just a nightmare, I have days where I just want to fuking go out in the desert and blow my brains out. I'm so sick of it, and I just found out my child support is on my credit report, so it makes my credit worse. I already fuking pay taxes and now it's on my fuking credit report???? FUK YOU. Then I was stuck with all the fuking debt too, that was fun. And what started it? The stupid bytch cheated on me, she blew this shyt up, and I was the one to fukking pay.
DO NOT GET MARRIED, EVER, DO NOT HAVE KIDS, the risk of what happens is far, far worse of the benefits. I'm not saying I hate women, I love them, I will just never marry one, they can figure it out on their on, not gonna be my problem any more.
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[–][deleted] 61 year ago*
I spent well over $50K on my divorce and the resulting custody battle. As a result of that battle, I hate my ex-wife more than I ever thought it was possible to hate another person.
I am not going to go into details but I will say that the lies she told and the shyt she pulled during that period is fukking unforgivable.
She is a smoker. Every year since our divorce I have given her 4 cartons of non-filtered cigarettes. I give her two cartons on her birthday and 2 cartons for Christmas. I do this in the hopes she will contract lung cancer and die a slow painful death. She knows why I do it but cigarettes are expensive and so she doesn't turn them down. She now has emphysema. That fact makes me sleep better at night. Now that I know its working, I just might double it and start sending them quarterly.
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I could literally keep going the shyt only seems to get worst even the next story I post is fuking terrible but he claims he got off lucky compared to his friends
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occerdada 1 year ago
I was with my ex for something like 16 years, 11 years married, so I was pretty shocked how my divorce happened. Not so much that the divorce was happening, we'd both agreed it was pretty much over. She said she wanted out, I told her to draft papers and I'd review, and sign.
Instead, she accused me of abusing my daughter. I got called at work, got slapped with a restraining order, I had to hire a criminal attorney due to the accusations, on a $5k retainer. I had to hire a civil attorney to deal with custody and the divorce, on a $7k retainer (credit cards, family loans, sold my 4-wheeler). OCS case workers convinced I was guilty to the point they interviewed my ex's entire family, but only me, and my interview would have been all of 5 minutes if my attorney hadn't been there.
It took me 3 months to see my daughter again, and at that point it was one day a week, for 3 hours, supervised visitation. It took another 8 months to have overnight visitation/custody.
In the midst of it, I dropped the criminal attorney (no charges were pressed as there was no evidence...because I never touched my daughter), and started dealing with the divorce, the false accusations, and getting my daughter back. My daughter was seeing a counselor (I later found out it was only in hopes my daughter would reveal to the counselor that she had been abused), I had to see a therapist and take three mental health tests ($4,750). I had to hire an independent child custody investigator ($4,500). And then the court appearances and attorney fees. It took just over a year and a half from start to finish.
During the trial, my ex's attorney pulled photos from online, accusing me of being a child pornographer (photo of my baby daughter without a shirt), being a binge drinker (photos of my friends hitting a beer bong...none of me), accused me of hitting my ex-wife (never) and whatever else they could think of.
Custody investigator came back and recommended split custody. Mental health evaluation said I was low-to-no-risk of doing such a thing (abusing my daughter). And my attorney kicked ass and got me split custody of my daughter.
The ex had to pay back the child support for some number of months, and the final ruling on custody meant she now had to pay ME $20 a month in child support (even though I made slightly more than she did....can't tell you how much I laughed about that ruling).
I now have split legal and physical custody of my daughter (week on, week off).
In the realm of getting screwed over by the state during the divorce...it's really all sort of worked out, but I'm definitely one of the minority (3 good friends of mine got hosed during their divorce in the same state). I'm still paying for it, though. I'm in debt to my eyeballs, both in credit card and money I still owe the attorney.
It's a strange situation, now. I hate what my ex did to my daughter. I'm a big boy and can have a drink or bytch to my buddies about what happened, but my daughter thought I left her and didn't want to see her. She's been asking me why I divorced her mother and what happened. She's still too young to understand, so I've been putting her off.
I still have to deal with the ex every week for school events and because my daughter plays competitive soccer. I'm cordial and even nice when Maya is around, but otherwise, I would rather never have to speak to her again. It's a situation where my final divorce date will be my daughter's 18th birthday.
And, honestly, I'm just waiting for the ex to have some fit and try to pull this shyt again.
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trying to convince people that women are the epitome of evil? 
