Was at a small bar in Memphis during a business trip. I wanted to go to a bigger bar but my cac coworkers knew some chick who worked there. Anyway we get there and it's a stereotypical small place, not a lot of people inside and I'm the only brotha. I could tell most of the crowd didn't care so I was at ease...
We sit down and the waitress my friends were fiending for comes over. Pawg blonde, not bad at all. We order while she flirts with the whole table. After a couple drinks and some hot wings I head to the restroom, and notice someone immediately got up to follow me. I was like cool whatever. I take a stall, he takes on next to me. I hear him whistling, then he says "what you doing up here bro?" I didn't respond, figured I'd pretend I thought he was talking on the phone.
I finish and head to wash my hands. He comes out his stall and gets all in my space and asks again. I say "just chilling"
Him: why you talking to the waitress? She isn't interested
Me: Who said I'm interested
Him: Don't be. She don't like yall...
Me: Come again? [no homo]
Him: *whispers* What's what yall say in the songs...nikkas
Me: Well, I'm glad I'm not a nikka. nikka
I walked out the restroom and took my seat. No way in hell I was gonna start a fight, because I knew I'd be labeled the instigator and shot on sight. Waitress comes back and I start hitting on her, she's obliging me, probably for tips, but I'm pretending like I'm interested. All the while, the cac from the restroom is staring at me from his table (on opposite side of room, in smoking section). We finished our meal, sat n drank some more before getting ready to leave, and I had to head to the restroom again. Once again, same dude followed me. I took a stall, this time he didn't; I texted my buddies, told them to head to the car asap and start the car. When I finished pissing I opened the stall, he was standing in front of me. Drunk as hell and sloppy. Tried to grab me, so I grabbed his hand and threw him on the sink counter. Dude wound up banging his head, and started yelling "******, fukk you. ****** when I get up..."
I walked out, kinda fast. Put a $10 on our table for the tip, left, hopped in the car, and we drove off. Never been back to Tennessee