⠀⠀⠀
Superstar
her post is a coping mechanism
Black women are celebrating going into 2025 single, celibate, and okay being alone….
- Thread starter Standing on business
- Start date
DJ Paul's Arm
Veteran
You know got dam well once they log off and put the phone down, they be like
Marlow Stanfield
Superstar
Many brehs on the Coli doing the same thing, just not celebrating it. 
Not me tho
Not me tho
Last edited:
Lexx Diamond
Art Lover ❤️ Sex Addict®™
etrofllenrod504
All Star
Whenever I read these announcements from a woman I always interpret it being one of two things.
1) the breh she wanted don’t want her and her feelings hurt cause she couldn’t lock him down
2) She in the process currently getting her cheeks clappped by the breh she wants and hasn’t accepted the reality of breh not settling with her.
1) the breh she wanted don’t want her and her feelings hurt cause she couldn’t lock him down
2) She in the process currently getting her cheeks clappped by the breh she wants and hasn’t accepted the reality of breh not settling with her.
Piff Perkins
Veteran
Don't fall for it. The (out of wedlock) pregnancy rate will remain the same, the chaos will remain the same, the lust for disorder will remain the same, the fetishization of socially stunted abusers will remain the same, etc. And not just for them. Brehs will be out here doing their version of that: the same inability to settle down, the lust for chaos, lack of accountability, refusal to be faithful, etc.
Point is...stay away. If you're not on that path don't seek it out. Which means stay away from single mothers. Ignore women who ask you for money 24 hours after you get their number. Stop chasing easy p*ssy every time you have a shot at it. Add some discipline into your life. Not so you can brag about it on social media, like the chick in the OP. Not so you can pretend you're something you aren't. Do it so you can grow as a human. I guarantee you will feel better and still get some p*ssy without it controlling your decision making.
Point is...stay away. If you're not on that path don't seek it out. Which means stay away from single mothers. Ignore women who ask you for money 24 hours after you get their number. Stop chasing easy p*ssy every time you have a shot at it. Add some discipline into your life. Not so you can brag about it on social media, like the chick in the OP. Not so you can pretend you're something you aren't. Do it so you can grow as a human. I guarantee you will feel better and still get some p*ssy without it controlling your decision making.
richaveli83
Veteran
Bushmaster69
Superstar
After they made their post on IG you know they went their bed and..
god shamgod
Veteran
2 co workers saying they’re celibate one claims it’s been 3 + years ,the other no sex since 2023
Women always voluntarily become celibate after they get played cuz of their bad choices in men. it ain’t what they really want to do ,they’re just worried about giving that p*ssy up & get ghosted(again) or realizing afterwards that nikka has a wife,family ,gf extra bm’s etc so they rather not be bothered and stay with the toys
Women always voluntarily become celibate after they get played cuz of their bad choices in men. it ain’t what they really want to do ,they’re just worried about giving that p*ssy up & get ghosted(again) or realizing afterwards that nikka has a wife,family ,gf extra bm’s etc so they rather not be bothered and stay with the toys
I think that's great. More 
women should do that and learn to settle into their identities more and establishing healthy relationships with one another. When women come together with a purpose, things can certainly get done and objectives can be reached. There is so much raw power there, the same power people talk down on but secretly wish they had (looking at you 
women). The beauty of black women is how strong they can be, damn near having the strength and audacity of men, and within seconds be the most soft and feminine woman ever seen. I think it's perfectly fine to have the essence of both, to let others know not to mistake your kindness for weakness. And being alone, but not truly alone, is a blessing for anyone so that they can recalibrate and rebuild anything that was loss. Go head women.
women should do that and learn to settle into their identities more and establishing healthy relationships with one another. When women come together with a purpose, things can certainly get done and objectives can be reached. There is so much raw power there, the same power people talk down on but secretly wish they had (looking at you women). The beauty of black women is how strong they can be, damn near having the strength and audacity of men, and within seconds be the most soft and feminine woman ever seen. I think it's perfectly fine to have the essence of both, to let others know not to mistake your kindness for weakness. And being alone, but not truly alone, is a blessing for anyone so that they can recalibrate and rebuild anything that was loss. Go head women.
I stay away from females who have to announce their relationship/life plans to strangers on social media. I mean, to setup the camera, tripod, get the filming area all set, record it, edit it, upload it, all to make an announcement 
.
.
trust if they were trul happy there would be no need to post about it. they would just be happy living their life. it's all a charade. crying inside as they post. absolute horseshyt.Yo, man. Seriously, how hard is it to just link up with a decent breh and get out the game
These chicks be going through a thousand phases kicking and screaming toward the same misery. Most of my circle is fellow married folks and not a single one of us is perfect, but I promise you “settling down” is way more peaceful and fulfilling than whatever this shyt is
TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?
I walk around a little edgy already
Box probably looks like a catcher's mitt after being ran thru
