Could'nt believe it when she told me. At first she didn't say a number. I thought oh, it's probably 2-3 grand at most. (not ideal but not damaging) but she finally said the real figure.
Tbh she only really married because her parents were coming to visit and they had been pressuring her about marriage for years, She's 35 now. Ancient in Asian unmarried years.
They had a quick wedding so her parents could attend but she and the guy were not really compatible in the end.
In fact, a big reason for the divorce is she wants to buy a house and she doesn't want him anywhere near it. Plus her parents now get off her back over marriage.
She's very frugal and very well off, but I don't know If I would cover $50,000 of someone else debt.