like Nas said in roses "If your made at that, you'll be mad forever"
the world don't give a fukk about your hurt feelings and whether its fair or not. IMO accept society for what it is and find goals to strive for. Inner peace and acceptance is key. THERE IS NO BLACK COMMUNITY!!! say that to yourself everyday in the mirror and repeat it. It don't exist, never existed and cant exist. It just don't. Then eventually you'll find peace. Become detached from this thing before its too late.
Stop worrying about shyt that you cant control. Stop worrying about what strangers are doing. Were all going to be dead in another few decades anyway. Do you really want to waste your life thinking about all the things that you hate and have no power to control? I did that so hopefully you wouldn't have to go through that
I came to the simple not yet complex conclusion I have no power so I need to gain acceptance and look towards a higher power. Accept the shyt that you see and ignore it and move on. Because if you don't it'll eat at the core of your soul.
Live your life and find a black woman to built with. Stop this obsession. Its going to make you mad and the rabbit hole is deep, don't get lost in it. You might not make it back out. You're going to end up like Jim Carey from that movie The Number 23. All weird and isolated with all this informative about a topic that cant help you grow in the real world. Nothing is worse than being smart with useless information
IMO black men need to try hard to built and find a like minded female and if she don't come fukk built for yourself or your family anyway. Life is lonely . Born alone die alone. Just try and don't waste valuable time on stupid shyt that your have absolutely no control over.