You sound like someones mother, friend. These arent little kids. These are grown men, so they dont hear you like little kids. You're in the demonic realm. You have to know how to carry yourself in a variety of environments. Like when you're in a church you dont talk loud. When you're in a crip neighborhood you dont wear all red and when you're wife is traveling with you to the middle east you tell her to leave the daisy dukes at home. This man forgot where he was and paid a price for it because he wanted to carry himself, demonically. Maybe next time he'll take a scenic route and instead of living in how the world Should be, live in the world, how it is, demonic, friend.