I think the issue is that Black people don't seem to like Black people that much.Thecoli likes to cherry pick. Yes,there are black men who die protecting women in their family from abusive men. Protecting strangers from dangerous men. Die being involved with women whos ex was a jealous thug. But lets be honest,those are outliers. Compared to black men killing men and women out of jealousy. Accidently killing men,women and babies in the course of senseless crossfire over stupid shyt. Coli picks the outliers that help their anti black women narrative.
I believe they may very well be right that problematic black men would change if black women stopped entertaining them. But if so thats an indictment on the state of black men. Not only are you saying we need women to lead. But in our current state, our minds revolve far too much around dating,fukking etc.
But I get it,I was once broke and ignorant,and the only power I had was through my dikk,and mind manipulation of women. So women do play a major role in the disfunction. When black women are one of the few things we have power over,and gain a sense a power from. Of course you will have many black men willing to kill and die to maintain it. No different than the arabs defending their oil fields. Black women are the black mans only commodity in this country
Its imperative to teach black men to find other sources of power besides women. Things that we can actually have control over.
lets take the killer Black Man trope obviously Black Men kill Black women (and Men) because they don't feel they deserve to live.
On the flipside Black women can overlook a rich nerd becuase she doesn't think she has to compete for him.
Maybe just maybe all Black people should get with people they respect. Only in Black America does the fact that you're Black factor at all in dating.
Go to any other country and they will think that dating strictly intraracially is the wierdest thing ever.
I know a old ass guy who went on a date with this fly ass Black women he told me she indicated that she preferred white dudes, but she agreed to go on a date with him. That's how non FBA Black women move they low key prefer white dudes but will deal with a Black Man who comes correct.