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Early 90s

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I think she got darker over the years but idk

all your pics didnt show...the one with puff: thats obviously a 'flash' pic...the one with her engagement ring: theres a bright light on her

no need to argue tho...some look ok some dont....and i think it has to do with skin tone....

overall though i would like to see black women go away from blond hair....never happen i know :yeshrug:

but as long as my wife doesnt wear it...:manny:
 

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If your point wasn't about me than why bring me into it and make a judgement on who I am?
This conversation isn't helping anyone either.
No one is in here saying "how can we get more bw to start loving their natural hair," 99% of the people in here are criticizing, judging, calling names and other foul shyt.
How do you or anyone else in here expect to bring about positivity with negativity?
I didn't really make a judgement of you. I don't know if you wear a weave or not and I don't care. I said that if people wanted to criticize you or any other black woman for wearing weave then it's their right to do so. If you don't wear weave then obviously that wouldn't apply to you.

The conversation isn't helping you because you don't want it to be had. "How we can get more bw to appreciate their natural hair and features" is part of this conversation and if you feel as though the conversation should be steered in that direction then that's what you should concentrate on doing instead of this passive aggressive dumb shyt that you're on. The 1st step to solving a problem is to acknowledge the problem. It's your own fault of you can't ignore the "foul shyt" and build with those who are making constructive criticisms.
 

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I didn't really make a judgement of you. I don't know if you wear a weave or not and I don't care. I said that if people wanted to criticize you or any other black woman for wearing weave then it's their right to do so. If you don't wear weave then obviously that wouldn't apply to you.

The conversation isn't helping you because you don't want it to be had. "How we can get more bw to appreciate their natural hair and features" is part of this conversation and if you feel as though the conversation should be steered in that direction then that's what you should concentrate on doing instead of this passive aggressive dumb shyt that you're on. The 1st step to solving a problem is to acknowledge the problem. It's your own fault of you can't ignore the "foul shyt" and build with those who are making constructive criticisms.

"How we can get more bw to appreciate their natural hair and features" is part of this conversation.
Really?? :usure:
Name one person in here who has made a "constructive criticism", or suggestion on how we can get more black women to love their natural hair.

Could I have tried to redirect the conversation and thrown in a question like that...yes, but you could have as well, and you didn't, you seem content with the negativity so stop with the passive aggressive dumb shyt that you're on.
I'm done, I'm not bumping this thread anymore. I'm glad it has died.
 

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Bu...bu...but It's her natural hair...

(Which has been your defense for every other race and gender). Also, I see you finally came back to the thread after trying to respond to my outing of your bias in this thread in a completely different thread.
 

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Bu...bu...but It's her natural hair...

(Which has been your defense for every other race and gender). Also, I see you finally came back to the thread after trying to respond to my outing of your bias in this thread in a completely different thread.

That shyt looks absutley fukkin ridiculous and you know it :russ:

Too much extreme anything is bad. I give her an E for effort for rockin her own hair tho :manny:


And u must have convienently skipped over all the photos in this thread that I dapped or quoted of bw wearin their hair natural but they had color in it :comeon:
 

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"How we can get more bw to appreciate their natural hair and features" is part of this conversation.
Really?? :usure:
Name one person in here who has made a "constructive criticism", or suggestion on how we can get more black women to love their natural hair.
:snoop: Where are your constructive criticisms of black women who have self hate issues concerning their natural hair/features? Where are your suggestions on how we can get more black women to love their natural hair? Stop trying to police other people and start practicing what you preach. All you're doing is trying to shame people for having an opinion that you don't like and it's bytch shyt.

Could I have tried to redirect the conversation and thrown in a question like that...yes, but you could have as well, and you didn't, you seem content with the negativity so stop with the passive aggressive dumb shyt that you're on.
I'm done, I'm not bumping this thread anymore. I'm glad it has died.
I'm not the whinin trying to police other people, how they feel, and what the choose to discuss. You are. There's absolutely nothing passive aggressive about me. I have no problems saying what I feel regardless of how others feel about it. You're trying to defend black women's obsession with non black hair without really defending it. You're trying to chastise black men who criticize black women's obsession with wearing non black hair without acknowledging the validity of the criticism. It's sucker shyt and you should be done.
 

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Bu...bu...but It's her natural hair...
That shyt looks absutley fukkin ridiculous and you know it :russ:

Too much extreme anything is bad. I give her an E for effort for rockin her own hair tho :manny:


And u must have convienently skipped over all the photos in this thread that I dapped or quoted of bw wearin their hair natural but they had color in it :comeon:

Dude, I haven't been in this thread since Sunday and haven't looked at all the posts between my last post to and today's post to you. I'm also not going to be searching for what you "dapped"
 

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Dude, I haven't been in this thread since Sunday and haven't looked at all the posts between my last post to and today's post to you. I'm also not going to be searching for what you "dapped"
Well don't jump to conclusions then ma :youngsabo:
 

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:snoop: Where are your constructive criticisms of black women who have self hate issues concerning their natural hair/features? Where are your suggestions on how we can get more black women to love their natural hair? Stop trying to police other people and start practicing what you preach. All you're doing is trying to shame people for having an opinion that you don't like and it's bytch shyt.

I'm not the whinin trying to police other people, how they feel, and what the choose to discuss. You are. There's absolutely nothing passive aggressive about me. I have no problems saying what I feel regardless of how others feel about it. You're trying to defend black women's obsession with non black hair without really defending it. You're trying to chastise black men who criticize black women's obsession with wearing non black hair without acknowledging the validity of the criticism. It's sucker shyt and you should be done.

Stop trying to police other people...All you're doing is trying to shame people for having an opinion that you don't like and it's bytch shyt.

Oh the hypocrisy :bryan:

I'm not trying to police other people, how they feel, and what the choose to discuss.

Just how they wear their hair. :umad:
 
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"How we can get more bw to appreciate their natural hair and features" is part of this conversation.
Really?? :usure:
Name one person in here who has made a "constructive criticism", or suggestion on how we can get more black women to love their natural hair.

Could I have tried to redirect the conversation and thrown in a question like that...yes, but you could have as well, and you didn't, you seem content with the negativity so stop with the passive aggressive dumb shyt that you're on.
I'm done, I'm not bumping this thread anymore. I'm glad it has died.
It all starts at home.

The next black chick I go with I will show her appreciation for her natural hair and I will raise my future daughter to appreciate her natural hair as well.
 
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Stop trying to police other people...All you're doing is trying to shame people for having an opinion that you don't like and it's bytch shyt.

Oh the hypocrisy :bryan:

I'm not trying to police other people, how they feel, and what the choose to discuss.

Just how they wear their hair. :umad:
Voicing an opinion doesn't equate to policing. The overuse of smileys is a dead give away that you're on some clown shyt.
 

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It all starts at home.

The next black chick I go with I will show her appreciation for her natural hair and I will raise my future daughter to appreciate her natural hair as well.

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