Black Blondes...

[Blackout]

How am I reaching?Never did I say they wouldn't look at her if she had her natural hair out.I'm saying that the men in here would not reject that girl even though she has a weave.

There are many things women do that men dislike and would like them to stop but don't reject them for it.

That doesn't change the fact that they dislike something like in this case weave which is why they speak about it here.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

There are many things women do that men dislike and would like them to stop but don't reject them for it.

That doesn't change the fact that they dislike something like in this case weave which is why they speak about it here.

Hypocrisy & inconsistency run rampant on this forum (& sometimes in real life).A number of black men say they can't stand weave & do not want to date a girl with weave.Yet, who do they worship?I'm going to need you to take a good look at these threads dedicated to "bad," women.The majority of them are weaved up.They can't "dislike," weave that much.

Some black men on here play a funny game.They put up this act like they want this "natural," black women while they worship everything BUT a black woman and her image. We can act like that's not real though.

 

[Matt504]

Hypocrisy & inconsistency run rampant on this forum (& sometimes in real life).A number of black men say they can't stand weave & do not want to date a girl with weave.Yet, who do they worship?I'm going to need you to take a good look at these threads dedicated to "bad," women.The majority of them are weaved up.They can't "dislike," weave that much.

Some black men on here play a funny game.They put up this act like they want this "natural," black women while they worship everything BUT a black woman and her image. We can act like that's not real though.

you're right, but these "worship threads" are dedicated to women that Black men want to do nothing more than have sex with.

I don't like weave at all, but I'd have sex with a woman who has weave, I wouldn't want her to be the mother of my child though.

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new submission:

Basketball player Russ Smith joins the Black Blonde's squad getting his independant woman swag on.
(clickable instagram pics)

 

[Tae]

The fact that you think that explains a lot.

The words you say make it sound like you just hate all black men.

I'm appalled at the amount of effort people put to defend black women wearing waves.

I'm appalled at the amount of time that is spent debating it.
How does a bw wearing a weave affect your life?
You do know there is an increase in bw wearing their natural hair. Instead of wasting time creating negative energy bashing bw who wear weaves why not spend time and focus your energy on praising natural women, and perhaps more young women and girls will follow suit.

 

[Matt504]

I'm appalled at the amount of time that is spent debating it.
How does a bw wearing a weave affect your life?
You do know there is an increase in bw wearing their natural hair. Instead of wasting time creating negative energy bashing bw who wear weaves why not spend time and focus your energy on praising natural women, and perhaps more young women and girls will follow suit.

a woman's worth shouldn't be defined by how a man feels about her. It shouldn't take a man's praise for a woman to love herself in her natural glory, older women should set the examples for young girls instead of demonstrating to them that their natural hair isn't as good as the bundle hair they buy from the Korean's.

 

[Tae]

a woman's worth shouldn't be defined by how a man feels about her. It shouldn't take a man's praise for a woman to love herself in her natural glory, older women should set the examples for young girls instead of demonstrating to them that their natural hair isn't as good as the bundle hair they buy from the Korean's.

You're right. How exactly do you think the natural movement began, it wasn't black men telling bw to throw out their weaves and relaxers, it was bw supporting each other.
And you are glib if you think the words of a strong man don't mean something to a young girl. Young people are impressionable, so a young girl seeing her mother rocking a fro will make her love her hair, and hearing the men in the community compliment her mother and other natural women in the neighborhood will only work to increase her confidence.

 

[Ikwa]

c00n female excuses when attempting to justify their self-hate:

"My cousin has natural 'dark red' hair"

"There's plenty of black people with natural blonde hair. I just saw 3 yesterday"

"I'm not trying to look white, I'm just using a protective style"

 

[Blackout]

Hypocrisy & inconsistency run rampant on this forum (& sometimes in real life).A number of black men say they can't stand weave & do not want to date a girl with weave.Yet, who do they worship?I'm going to need you to take a good look at these threads dedicated to "bad," women.The majority of them are weaved up.They can't "dislike," weave that much.

Some black men on here play a funny game.They put up this act like they want this "natural," black women while they worship everything BUT a black woman and her image. We can act like that's not real though.

Black men aren't a monolith. Just because a few do that doesn't mean that we all do that.

Many men here would like those same girls if they had their natural hair.

 

[Ain't That Something]

Rightttt.

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[Blackout]

I'm appalled at the amount of time that is spent debating it.
How does a bw wearing a weave affect your life?
You do know there is an increase in bw wearing their natural hair. Instead of wasting time creating negative energy bashing bw who wear weaves why not spend time and focus your energy on praising natural women, and perhaps more young women and girls will follow suit.

How is it affecting my life?

As a man who is looking for a black woman it annoys me that I'm not seeing the real her.

Maybe if I didn't like black women and only fukked white chicks then I wouldn't give a fukk about weave.

 

[Arishok]

I gives a fukk what you want you slack jawed c*nt. Obviously the black men in your life don't show your ugly ass any love hence the negative broad generalization. Just because the black men you encounter don't appreciate you and your "nappy shyt" doesn't mean that black men don't appreciate black women who wear their hair naturally. It's probably not your hair it's probably your gruesome ass face out of shape ass body and stank ass attitude. Go sick something and choke.

You got real heated over a message board comment breh, go outside and meet some people.

 

[Matt504]

You're right. How exactly do you think the natural movement began, it wasn't black men telling bw to throw out their weaves and relaxers, it was bw supporting each other.
And you are glib if you think the words of a strong man don't mean something to a young girl. Young people are impressionable, so a young girl seeing her mother rocking a fro will make her love her hair, and hearing the men in the community compliment her mother and other natural women in the neighborhood will only work to increase her confidence.

I agree, and before men can give women compliments for wearing their natural hair, and young impressionable girls hear those compliments, they have to be wearing their natural hair..

 

[Blackout]

I agree, and before men can give women compliments for wearing their natural hair, and young impressionable girls hear those compliments, they have to be wearing their natural hair..

Werd we can't complement what we can't see. Weave is so common we can't even guess.

Plus black chicks get offended if you try to find out by asking.

 

[Matt504]

Werd we can't complement what we can't see. Weave is so common we can't even guess.

Plus black chicks get offended if you try to find out by asking.

I go out of my way to compliment Black women wearing their natural hair too, and I'm not the type of dude that just goes up to women I don't know, so that just shows how much I care about my sisters and their confidence.

If I can't tell whether it's natural or not, I won't even ask because I already know how quickly that convo can turn bad.

 

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