I've watched the entire thing but she didn't mention the racial slurs at all, where is that at?
This is Tanehisi Coates vs Frank B. Wilderson III in a nutshell... And what intersectionality tried to address...
She didn't say anything crazy or wrong in the video in and of itself... But IF it really happened, to expect people to get called slurs and just take it on the chin is crazy. On the other hand, if people showed you love and you're making your whole trip about one incident, you're forcing it.
That episode basically sums up the experience of Black solidarity with other groups

it's a complicated but necessary thing