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If that's you (knowing how this site is), you aren't a bad looking woman. Nose rings are an absolute turn off and that piercing please get rid off. You're not a bovine.

Aside from that, you better get in where you fit in (older black men, not cacs). Let the women in your age range worry about all the bullshyt these younger nikkas are doing. You'll bypass a lot of it to be honest.
 

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your cutesy but hun in this pic you look 24-30. That might be why older guys get at u.
 

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I've seen some people say this, and I'm like :wtf:. I'm always hearing about black men not appreciating natural hair. I'm just like :camby:Maybe it's my city, but I have seen more non blacks talk smack about natural hair.

No, you're right and the truth extends most everywhere (including my city). Black men like natural hair black and, well, most any type of black women more than non black men. The dilemma that many black men won't approach a black women with the traits you mentioned earlier--including natural hair, soft spoken etc--because the traits signal c00nery and black men are afraid of getting rejected. I, for example, LOVE alternative black girls with septum rings, cool hair, etc. But I always see them alone or..

On the other hand, many black girls can rock their look without giving off too many c00n vibes OR they live in a city with MANY black guys so the scared ones are offset by the brave ones. :lupe:

I really dislike the septum piercing thing black girls are doing. It's gross. So yeah that's a dealbreaker, you'll only attract old white dudes looking to spice up their life with that.

I love septum piercings but I don't approach black girls with septum piercings because I connote it with c00nery. I assume the girl won't like me so I don't bother.

Now this is a better pic.... the first did no favors... How tall are you?

You look and probably act older than your age. I'd scoop you up because I like tall women...

But then again, I'm 32... close to the age range of men you're trying to avoid.

I think old black guys are different to old white guys. Old white guys never liked black women; they are just now trying to get the lowest hanging fruit because white girls don't like them anymore. Old black guys, on the other hand, have always liked black women and just haven't found the right one yet.
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you look, dress, and type way older than 20

i would put you in that 28-35 demographic

if you have some fashion savvy friends,,
consider getting a makeover
maybe shift your image in a sporty direction
go for the young gym rat/cross-fit look??
whatever you do- take more chances
i think you need to really shake things up
 

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but why tho :ohhh: you could ask her to take it out...

my nigerian bio prof asks me to take it out for his class.we're from the same village though, so....:yeshrug:

dont matter, got an A lol

it makes you less attractive

cut it, work out a bit maybe, and spice up your wardrobe

then the dudes will come calling
 

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If that's you (knowing how this site is), you aren't a bad looking woman. Nose rings are an absolute turn off and that piercing please get rid off. You're not a bovine.

Aside from that, you better get in where you fit in (older black men, not cacs). Let the women in your age range worry about all the bullshyt these younger nikkas are doing. You'll bypass a lot of it to be honest.
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I'm actually in love with a beautiful, big tittied, septum pierced black girl right now. But I think she's a :mjpls: and I never see her with black guys so..:mjcry:

I tried to talk to her once and we ended up arguing.I ended up making fun of her to lower her self esteem in hopes of getting her to like me. My plan backfired spectacularly. Now she all but ignores me...:mjcry:

All things considered, I still love her. :mjcry:
 
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