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[Dirty Mcdrawz]

i dont want to be rude and walk away. they usually try to ask me out but i refuse because how tf do i look getting a number from a random man I dont know?

.........like a attractive woman? don't most women ugly or attractive get random numbers from men? is the game not played like that anymore? do they exchange snapchat and instagram handles now?.............i'm lost

 

[ADK]

Yall nikkas gay. She ain't bad looking.
@ridingonawhim dont let these scorned ass nikkas get to you Id lick that piercing with a quickness.

 

[MostReal]

You remind me of

yep, she does look similar. take a few fashion tips from this lady in pics cause they have a similar style as well

she could be out there winning, if she ditches that nose ring

 

[ThisWorldAintRight]

.i attract old cacs and older black men (>35+). why is this? legitamately curious. I'm 20 by the way.

its like pulling teeth to get a male at my hbcu to even notice me or even date methe hours i spend the lab dont help either.

whats even crazier is that older guys approach me ( esp when im alone). they just walk up to me and start talking and im like . i dont want to be rude and walk away. they usually try to ask me out but i refuse because how tf do i look getting a number from a random man I dont know?

old cacs are the worst bc they literally slither up behind you. i had a cac kidney doctor try to buy me breakfast and dinner while i was in colorado out of fukking nowhere.

How do in change this? i dont understand

tl;dr young guys dont give a shyt about me but old guys do. how do i reverse this?

Yo, from the pics you posted I think you're a beautiful sister with one hell of a smile. The nose ring might be what's throwing these guys off, but it doesn't bother me tho. I like the fact that you're willing to ask guys out since so many of these women think they're too damn good to do it themselves, so you get points for that too.

You're a catch, but you don't give off that "I'm a slut" vibe which is, sadly, what a lot of young cats are looking for. Stay in the game and you're bound to win, you're too pretty not to.

Peace...

 

[Queen]

You know, I don't think men like the nose ring thing. Too many people are mentioning it. I think it can look nice sometimes. I recently asked my husband what would he think if I got one and he hit me with the real quick. I don't think men like it. And I wasn't even talking about the middle of my nose. I meant one of those piercings on the side that you can attach to an earring. I thought it would be a fun look to try, be apparently not. So you might want to try your luck and see what happens if you remove it.

 

[Jahbarri]

the imaging upload system on this site sucks lol. I cant put pics on here straight from my phone?

coli nikkas will fukk anything *hence the daps* no shade doe do your thang home girl

 

[ridingonawhim]

.........like a attractive woman? don't most women ugly or attractive get random numbers from men? is the game not played like that anymore? do they exchange snapchat and instagram handles now?.............i'm lost

my post definitely sounds weird once i read it bsck....

tbh i think i wont ever get used to guys hitting on me in public

i end up hitting them with the i dont know why youre talking to me" lol

 

[ThisWorldAintRight]

i end up hitting them with the i dont know why youre talking to me" lol

Damn.

 

[Elle Driver]

Yeah don't do it again. It comes off as despreate. Men love to chase. They need to chase you not the other way around.

Nah sometimes you gotta go for what you want instead of waiting for a guy to read your mind and approach. Introduce yourself, spark up a convo. If you risk lookin like a fool you can always say you at least tried.

I've approached guys in the past just by introducing myself and sometimes it worked out, sometimes it didnt.

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

your lungs are shyt then. ive never been above sea level and i was fine.

the amount of cacs was uncomfortable but i stayed in a cabin compound in the mountains so i didnt really see anybody.

Foh hermit, why dont you run AT LEAST 2 miles every other day and see how you would last. I promise you you wouldnt have last around the block. nikka getting fat from sitting around in the cabin in the woods, talking about people who actually DO recreation in the mountains, but my lungs aint shyt?

 

[Dirty Mcdrawz]

i like the septum nose rings, it helps me focus on women's eyes and not their cleavage

 

[ridingonawhim]

Damn.

i dont actually say that out loud lol
its always when im reading or doing something. so inconvenient lol

 

[O.T.I.S.]

you're acting like "following a trend" is some egregious offense, we aren't teens any more, we don't have to be afraid of looking like a big, bad conformist
you either don't understand what I wrote or you're intentionally not understanding
I'm not saying the physical act of the piercing is individual, I'm saying when people (especially women) alter their appearance from what the standard is in a way that is not sexual or done to be more physically appealing (like stretching their ears, or piercings that deviate from the cultural standard), people treat it like it's a joke or unnecessary, which is lame
it's literally a hole in skin, so you could do less with assigning politics and identities to people
not being able to see past your own nose

Again... Gtfoh


This has nothing to do with whatever feminist agenda you're trying to make it. It looks stupid on men just as much as it does on women but most men don't give as much of a fukk about what another nikka does or if it's stupid or not.

You got a bunch of men in here telling you that shyt looks dumb and it has nothing to do with her being a woman.

Stretching the ears looks stupid but to each his own.. And that's also some other bedwenching shyt but that fad didn't catch on like that in the black community. Also you can hide that and doesn't look as bad.

Septum piercing is literally hanging out of the nose, in broad sight saying "look at me, I have shyt in my nose!"

 

[Mr. Togo]

I vote you keep the septum

 

[ridingonawhim]

Foh hermit, why dont you run AT LEAST 2 miles every other day and see how you would last. I promise you you wouldnt have last around the block. nikka getting fat from sitting around in the cabin in the woods, talking about people who actually DO recreation in the mountains, but my lungs aint shyt?

i hiked 2 hours every day up a steep ass mountain (from 9,000 - 12,000 ft above sea level) in the snow to sample data and im a fat nikka sitting in the woods?

ok fine. the fact that you do this recreationally and you still havent gotten used to it makes you look even worseive never been above sea level and i was golden. no mountain sickness or anything.

pls go