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I wasn't really talkin bout her situation I was trying to end a convo that's been brought up too many times on here but I agree.. what's your definition of pursuing though? There's nothin wrong with hittin up a guy to go chill or hang somewhere..an actual date is a different story

IMO it is his job to initiate the first time. She can show signs of interest but he should do the asking out the first time. After that is should be mutual initiations.
 

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look good to me but I'm an official rep of #teamugly/#teamnofap so I'm slightly dizzy and sexually frustrated/not really at the moment. Do you girl ;)
 

Rusty Kuntz

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Myself. fukk 12(1)!
Really? When did this become a thing tho? If I remember correctly it was always those overly done up skinny with big boobs and horrible weaves black women i used to see with older white guys.
The ones who looked like this
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Goodness, she looks a mess LOL
 

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:pacspit: fukk yall squares, acting like your dikks can't handle some physical individuality
The last thing you're doing is being an individual :heh:

Following dumb trends isn't being an individual at all

And OP you a cute chick. Just switch your style up if who you attract is what's bothering you.

You look like you wear hushpuppies:francis:
 

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THIS fukkING GUY :russ:

im kind of avoiding naija men because i dont know if i want to have kids yet:upsetfavre:
Most Naija men around your age aren't interested in having kids. Most are focused on schooling and career.

If you are in the DMV area and have trouble dating, its most likely due to your personality. You might be attracting guys that arw equally as awkward as you are that can't strike up a conversation.

You also give up the :mjpls: vibe which will cause some black men to automatically ignore you.
 
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