Best way to break it off w a chick

[BlvdBrawler]

I sorta wanted to do it without hurting her feelings..

and without having to hear her cry. bytch said, "ur gonna b mine forever' the other day, I haven't been feeling it since that shyt.

I guess that's being a p*ssy.

There's no way to do it w/o there being tears, crying, begging, etc... She's basically gonna say whatever she can say to try to talk you out of it. Just re-iterate to her that you're not happy and she shouldn't ask you to continue not being happy for her sake.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

no, my gf lives w me.

related to the reason y i need to break it off. gf is very nice and sweet all of a sudden, either I'm sharing or she's becoming perfect.

Im sure you guys argue like everyone else. Just wait for the next decent argument, and break up with her right there on the spot. Tell her you cant take the drama anymore.

 

[YouLoveMe]

Im sure you guys argue like everyone else. Just wait for the next decent argument, and break up with her right there on the spot. Tell her you cant take the drama anymore.

True sh!t.

Nice avi pic btw. You look like you just seen a PAWG in that pic

 

[No_bammer_weed]

True sh!t.

Nice avi pic btw. You look like you just seen a PAWG in that pic

Shorty was taking the picture.

 

[YouLoveMe]

Shorty was taking the picture.

To that PAWG!! She got good camera taking skills.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

To that PAWG!! She got good camera taking skills.

Those aint her only skills too, breh

 

[Blackking]

Im sure you guys argue like everyone else. Just wait for the next decent argument, and break up with her right there on the spot. Tell her you cant take the drama anymore.

no, the gf is w me and is being perfect.

the other girl is a side chick who i fukked up and started a relationship w. and naw we don't argue... she's always tried to be great, so that's y i want to do it the best way - she don't deserve the bushes.

 

[Real]

Text message never fails for me.

 

[Brofato]

The younger immature me would trick her into thinking she did something wrong that I couldn't get over.. I mean thats kind of a coward move but shyt works.

Now I would just meet her out for lunch then tell her it isn't working out.

The number of times I've tried that but I could never keep it going.

 

[ltheghost]

and not have to hear her mouth, a cry or any of that type of shyt??


any good ways to do this?

Seriously. Tell her that it's over. Call her over the phone and say, "Look, it's over, we can be friends but right now we can't be together, I'm sorry. It's just not working out. It's the way I feel and I'm sorry if this hurts you but I have to keep moving." If she starts crying and asking why, remember it's your decision. Keep it moving. You don't have time for the games or the crying emotional bullshyt. End it with a woman and move on to the next one.

I've done this several times with no problems. Even had a girl ask me if I still loved her and I told her no to her face. She cried but got over it. I don't believe in stringing people along or using anyone for my gratification. If it's over. It's over.

 

[Blackking]

Seriously. Tell her that it's over. Call her over the phone and say, "Look, it's over, we can be friends but right now we can't be together, I'm sorry. It's just not working out. It's the way I feel and I'm sorry if this hurts you but I have to keep moving." If she starts crying and asking why, remember it's your decision. Keep it moving. You don't have time for the games or the crying emotional bullshyt. End it with a woman and move on to the next one.

I've done this several times with no problems. Even had a girl ask me if I still loved her and I told her no to her face. She cried but got over it. I don't believe in stringing people along or using anyone for my gratification. If it's over. It's over.

bish put in madd work 4 nothing tho. i put up money and hanging out time... but she put up dissin other guys, my bs, being a freak, etc.. and saying love u w nobody saying it back.

but aight yea, i'll prolly hit her in the am like.. peace.

 

[King Poetic]

put a bullet by her bed and leave a note saying " This is For U Love "

but seriously just tell her u tired of this shyt and need to move on and put the phone down and let her talk and in about a minute pick up and say yeah yeah, ok take care and hang up

 

[ltheghost]

bish put in madd work 4 nothing tho. i put up money and hanging out time... but she put up dissin other guys, my bs, being a freak, etc.. and saying love u w nobody saying it back.

but aight yea, i'll prolly hit her in the am like.. peace.

See the thing is, when you are with someone, then you are WITH them. If you are together and YOU are not happy then you are being false. She could be making someone else happy. Don't be selfish or string them along. She may not be the one for you. Before you do it, think about life without her. And if you are happy without her, get rid of her. Let her know where you stand. It WILL hurt. Her and you. But it is what you want that matters. (I had a chick who would cook everyday, breakfest, lunch, and dinner. But she wanted kids outta college. I wasn't ready at the time. Told her bye. She went to my moms house about it. But after a while it was the right decision for me, it wasn't easy at all)

 

[Easy-E]

This may sound immature, but; I never understood the "breakup to her face" thing.

I mean; I understand a phone call is better impersonal and a letter may be cruel. But, having her come somewhere, not knowing she's about to be dumped (she may be relived to see you), seems just as bad.

Atleast with a phone call; it convenient for her and she doesn't have her time wasted. Maybe after the call, ya'll can schedule to meet face-to-face.