Being an Asian man has to be the worst thing ever when it comes to dating

[Tom Foolery]

Race Track.

 

[Illuminatos]

Asians like this <3

Asian Guys, Stop Being P*ssies!

He's a fukk boy.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

He's a fukk boy.

Lol,define f*ck boy?

 

[Illuminatos]

Lol,define f*ck boy?

Something about him makes me wanna knock his ass out.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

Something about him makes me wanna knock his ass out.

Lol, he exudes confidence though!I think if some Asian boys weren't so shy/timid, they would be able to pull girls like everyone else.

 

[bmoxover]

I actually see more White guy and Asian Girl couples than Asian Guy and Asian Girl couples. Does anyone know the reason for this? Its kind of interesting for me to see so much women date outside their race.

Many of them have self-hate issues. I don't know what the hell it is, but it seems to affect Asian females more than any race. They want to be accepted as being white which to me is odd, to say the least.

Maybe, it's a case of Asian broads wanting to be accepted as 'American' and they misconstrue 'American' as 'white'. Dunno, it's an interesting case for sure, one that warrants a closer look IMO.

Yeah, I guess Asian dudes in general are at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes to dating, but one with game can most definitely use that to his advantage. I know I did. Dudes get straight when they see my BM . But as with any male, confidence is the key to success. A little bit of money + a$$hole-ness doesn't hurt either.

I don't know about most Asian females prefer white boys over Asians tho', that's a reach. Asians tend to hang out at other 'Asian' spots, so yeah, if you're out at the local bar you'll see alot more AW/WM couples.

 

[Ohnoits]

Many of them have self-hate issues. I don't know what the hell it is, but it seems to affect Asian females more than any race. They want to be accepted as being white which to me is odd, to say the least.

Maybe, it's a case of Asian broads wanting to be accepted as 'American' and they misconstrue 'American' as 'white'. Dunno, it's an interesting case for sure, one that warrants a closer look IMO.

Yeah, I guess Asian dudes in general are at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes to dating, but one with game can most definitely use that to his advantage. I know I did. Dudes get straight when they see my BM . But as with any male, confidence is the key to success. A little bit of money + a$$hole-ness doesn't hurt either.

I don't know about most Asian females prefer white boys over Asians tho', that's a reach. Asians tend to hang out at other 'Asian' spots, so yeah, if you're out at the local bar you'll see alot more AW/WM couples.

Their cultures by and large put a lot of emphasis on conformity to achieve status, making wealth to take care of your families, and white = right. Even before white people got there they always prized pale and white skin as something belonging to superior classes because they didnt' work in the fields. White people showing up with colonialism made things worse. I can't emphasize that enough: this is where those eye-widening surgeries, blond hair jobs and chasing white men comes from.

You see it in the Black culture as well, but as much as people complain on here it is still not as bad as the Asians get it. Most Black folk look down on skin bleaching in the US and hate that type of c00ning. If we didn't, you wouldn't see so many discussions about how shameful it is on these forums.

With Asians most of the time, from my experience dealing with friends they don't have nearly the same concerns about this that we do. They will even change their names to fit in better with white people and black folks won't do that. It is rare to find Black people with white sounding names because we refuse to take that on since the movement in the 70s.

Most Asian families still prefer a wealthy man or woman from where they grew up, but the order usually goes like this:

Asian man from village with money, status, good job
Asian man from village with status, respectable job
Asian man from village with family connection
Asian man from another area with money, status, good job
-repeat-
-repeat-
White dude with money status, good job























Latinos, Black folks, Filipinos


That is just my experience with it from the Asian girls I've talked to messed with over the years or men I've been friends with.

And I'll say it again some of those most superficial bytches I've ever messed with were Asian women.

 

[TheBigBopper]

Doesn't seem too bad for them if they primarily stick with Asian women. Hell, given my naturally beta characteristics, I'd probably have better dating success as an Asian than a black man

 

[TheBigBopper]

asians dude i know are either super awkward or macking hard.

i actually think asians have the advantage of being underestimated. generally, people kinda expect them to be timid so if they show a hint of boldness, they stand out even more to girls. the opposite kinda holds true to black people. Depending on who you're dealing with, girls generally expect us to be more aggressive and if you don't have that type of temperament or you just don't have it in you, you're pegged as soft and friendzoned. it's all about stereotypes and cultural expectations.

This. This is exactly why I fail as a black man with dating.