“Being a black woman doesn’t mean men are obligated to protect you without knowing all the details “- black queen

[skyrunner1]

I lost two cousins and one aunt to kidnappings. I got lucky but they certainly did not

Thats unfortunate to you and yours for real, I can understand how that can skew personal views with things happening in a disproportional way in your family but that is not the norm to say its a high chance that can happen to people overall. High chance is 50/50 that every time you step out you might get murked out.. dont see that happening overall atleast in U.S

 

[NobodyReally]

It’s not victim blaming at all. I’ve been around hundreds of women in my life. The feminine ones who don’t talk to men crazy have never gotten into an altercation where a random man “attacks” them.

The women who have, have always been the women who talc to men crazy.

Is it a coincidence? Possibly, but I doubt it.

Woman Shot and Killed After Refusing to Give Man Her Phone Number​

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PublishedOctober 7, 2014

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A man shot and killed a woman and wounded five others after his advances on her were rejected.

According to police, 27-year-old Mary "Unique" Spears, a mother of three, had gone to the American Legion Joe Louis Post No. 375 in Detroit with some friends and relatives following the funeral of another family member. While she was there, the suspect, whose name has not been released, began pestering Spears to give him her phone number. She repeatedly refused, telling him she was engaged, but the man kept persisting.

11 Black Women Who Were Killed For Saying 'No'​

MISOGYNY AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN ARE BOTH UGLY, ONGOING ISSUES IN OUR SOCIETY THAT CONTINUE TO RESULT IN THE SENSELESS DEATHS OF THOUSANDS OF WOMEN ANNUALLY. IN MANY OF THESE CASES, THE WOMEN VICTIMIZED BY THE TERRIBLE REALITIES OF THIS EPIDEMIC HAD THEIR LIVES CUT SHORT SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY REFUSED THE ADVANCES, REQUESTS OR ORDERS OF MEN. AS WE CONTINUE OUR EFFORTS TO BRING AWARENESS TO THIS HORRIFIC AND TROUBLING PROBLEM IN HOPES OF BRINGING IT TO AN END, HERE ARE 12 WOMEN WHO WERE KILLED JUST FOR SAYING "NO."
BY RACHAELL DAVIS · UPDATED OCTOBER 26, 2020

12 Black Women Who Lost Their Lives For Saying 'No' | Essence

A gallery of 11 Black women who lost their lives for saying 'no' to or refusing their attackers.

www.essence.com

 

[NobodyReally]

Mother of victim in alleged Darius Miles shooting says daughter died after rejecting romantic advances
“He was advancing on her and she declined his attention,” DeCarla Cotton said of the incident involving Darius Miles.
BY ANGEL SAUNDERS
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‘Rejection Killings’ Need to Be Tracked​

Two more women died this week after saying no​

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Two women were killed this week because they had the temerity to say no to men.

Tamara O’Neal, a doctor at Chicago’s Mercy Hospital, was murdered by her former fiance; Dr. O’Neal had recently called off the engagement. Aisha Fraser was waiting for her divorce to be finalized when her estranged husband stabbed her to death — Fraser’s 8- and 11-year old daughters watched their mother die.
These crimes weren’t only domestic violence murders: they were rejection killings — a term I use to describe attacks by men furious with the women who deny them. Events like these — where women with abusive partners are killed when they are trying to leave the relationship, or have already left — have become sickeningly familiar in the United States.

Despite the rise of explicitly misogynist crimes and the increased attention on women’s issues, there’s no comprehensive tracking mechanism for rejection violence and rejection killings. Instead, it’s just story after tragic story.

Tiarah Poyau was a 22-year-old graduate student and aspiring accountant when she told a man at a dance party to “get off” after he started to grind on her. His response was to shoot her in the face. Iowa college student Mollie Tibbets was killed by a man she told to leave her alone when he approached her while she was jogging. A Detroit mother of three was killed because she refused to give a stranger her phone number. A New York woman had her neck slashed when she declined her attacker’s offer for a date. ​

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[Peruvian Connect]

She was on point until the end. You can't compare jewelry and rocks to people.

Meanwhile nikkas can do whatever they want and can hide behind the guys, the set, the hood. And if you don't back them you a sucker and ain't a real one.

 

[analog]

I'm becoming convinced it's just fatherless women projecting their lack of security onto the shoulders of strangers at this point.

I'm sorry your daddy ain't been around to make you feel safe, and loved but that's an issue between you and that man. The rest of us are not responsible for your safety... call your pops or call the cops

 

[Peruvian Connect]

I'm becoming convinced it's just fatherless women projecting their lack of security onto the shoulders of strangers at this point.

I'm sorry your daddy ain't been around to make you feel safe, and loved but that's an issue between you and that man. The rest of us are not responsible for your safety... call your pops or call the cops

You're a pusssy. Black men are supposed to be strong, but if this board represents men, yall are straight PUSSSSY!. Yall scared of all the so called Pokeys and Ray Ray's. Yall see no need to police your community. Yall are not going to protect your woman or your kids. You gonna let them get victimized because yall are cowards.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I lost two cousins and one aunt to kidnappings. I got lucky but they certainly did not

I’m sorry to hear this, but this isn’t normal everyday activity.

And did they know the perpetrator or was it a random dude on the street? Usually it’s someone they know unless it’s children, and we don’t fukk with child abductors in this community either.

As far as the brick situation, none of those dudes around were black american men, and the dude that hit her with a brick wasn’t a black American man. She was dogging bm left and right on socials before that and doing wild shyt to go viral. Doesn’t mean I condone dudes behavior but you cant have it both ways then EXPECT the same men you disrespect to save you from your decisions.


And to others in the thread, I see people editing some of their posts. Would you want your s/o and father of your kids to intervene in someones domestic situation? Or would you rather they call the police? What about your son?

Also, I see people trying to post crimes committed by black men against bw… do these same crimes not happen with other races?

 

[Hamsterdam921]

nikkas wives after they protected a black woman: “You gone protect me like you protected that bytch”

“Matter of fact go stay with her since you care about a bytch safety so much”

 

[feelosofer]

I think what is happening is that men particularly Black men have jumped into situations involving women without asking questions and it has gotten them either locked up, beat up or killed and have done it without expecting reciprocation, appreciation or even respect. I think what is happening is that men are prioritizing their safety as a collective.

 

[analog]

You're a pusssy. Black men are supposed to be strong, but if this board represents men, yall are straight PUSSSSY!. Yall scared of all the so called Pokeys and Ray Ray's. Yall see no need to police your community. Yall are not going to protect your woman or your kids. You gonna let them get victimized because yall are cowards.

I don't know what the fukk you're talking about but if every man looked after the bytch he nuts in and the child that comes out, we wouldn't be here right now. It's a whole lot of grown ass children out here looking for substitute daddies. Goodluck with all that.

 

[BigMan]

She was on point until the end. You can't compare jewelry and rocks to people.

Meanwhile nikkas can do whatever they want and can hide behind the guys, the set, the hood. And if you don't back them you a sucker and ain't a real one.

This comment makes more sense after realizing you a woman lol

Her analogy was on point IMO. Not everyone has value or the same value.

 

[BigMan]

You're a pusssy. Black men are supposed to be strong, but if this board represents men, yall are straight PUSSSSY!. Yall scared of all the so called Pokeys and Ray Ray's. Yall see no need to police your community. Yall are not going to protect your woman or your kids. You gonna let them get victimized because yall are cowards.

Protect black women yall

 

[AAKing23]

If I were for marriage and she was my wife I'd be rushing home to that

 

[Peruvian Connect]

I don't know what the fukk you're talking about but if every man looked after the bytch he nuts in and the child that comes out, we wouldn't be here right now. It's a whole lot of grown ass children out here looking for substitute daddies. Goodluck with all that.

You're still wrong. Some people raise their kids to be predators, some people raise their kids to be docile, some people raise their kids to be strong. Obviously most of this board was raised to be docile.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

This comment makes more sense after realizing you a woman lol

Her analogy was on point IMO. Not everyone has value or the same value.

That's exactly why her opinion is wrong