“Being a black woman doesn’t mean men are obligated to protect you without knowing all the details “- black queen

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Nobody owes you shyt
Not protection
Not a job
Not a greeting
Nothing
Muthafukkas just think people suppose to die for them and at the same time
You have told men we are all trash, good for nothing, ain’t shyt
So which one is it
These hoes dug their grave
Let them sleep in it
Protect the women that you actually know and love
These other bytches better get a gun, dog and a life insurance policy

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Men care what she thinks.

Again, family, it's on go.

Again, you go take yo ass out there and risk your life, you go and fight the nikka and his people if you care that dayum much. Take yo ass out there and risk your life

So ya mom/grandmom deserves her ass beat because she thinks all the youngins in her hood are thugs nd up to no good. And everytime they ask to help her with something, she tells them to "get on". So when somebody tries to rob her , she'll deserve it. Got it!

 

[TQbrit]

I hope miss pick me realizes the men agreeing with her there and here will turn on her the slightest she says something out of line

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Also why is every chick in yall scenarios some smarmy biitch.? Why it can't just be a regular friendly chick, And lets say it a regular friendly girl, does yall stance change?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I didn't say all I said most but again if you took offense, it says more about you than me

I take offense to your bm slander, yes.

You say most but come off as if you don’t mean most.

You ran in here calling men pussies because they don’t believe in putting their lives on the line for people who don’t value them.. while showing you don’t value them

 

[TQbrit]

We live in a society. No we should not allow others to get murdered and beat on in the streets. That's common fukking sense. I swear to god some people are stupid as hell.

And why does this have to be a gender issue? If I see anyone getting hit, I will call the police or at the very least yell for the person to stop.

So many fukking cowards out there.

It's fukking insane the lengths they'd go to. The amount of think pieces I've seen from them telling bw they don't owe them anything, not even a call to the authorities when they see something. It's literally being an upstanding citizen, why do we need to know who the person is before stepping in/alerting authorities when they see a literal crime

 

[Piff Perkins]

Hold on. Imagine making this argument while simultaneously demanding men effectively be crash dummies who hurl their bodies at your feet to defend you against anything and everything, while having no agency to offer correction or suggestion or advice. Who is calling who an object here.

Equating this to blaming someone being raped for wearing revealing clothes is asinine. I expect a grown adult to understand risk and threat mitigation. I expect a grown adult to understand the time to take a walk is during the morning, afternoon, or evening. Not at 3AM, in the alley, in a bad part of town. We just had a topic on gas station loitering and why avoiding those places is probably a good idea. Will you end up being shot at that gas station? Probably not, the odds are low. But they're higher than they would be at a gas station where no one is loitering. So I'm gonna go to the safer option.

And again: they've found a gender role they're willing to acknowledge and demand strict adherence to...

 

[vino]

Nuances to “helping women/someone” is being conflated. I’m a good individual so, I see an innocent person being victimized I would help as best as I could.

But, they want dudes to just be human shields for their lack of accountability. Some of them talking like our lives are expendable.

Those 2 scenarios are being used as one. Most men are saying “yo, I’m not just about to be your human shield because you unruly and shyt”.

 

[TripleAgent]

Is this an unintended consequence of the “I don’t date bus drivers”, he need to be “6’3 with 6 figures” culture they started promoting? You only want baseball card level statistics in your inner circle, as a result, you don’t have an inner circle

Erica Leshai

We live in a society. No we should not allow others to get murdered and beat on in the streets. That's common fukking sense. I swear to god some people are stupid as hell.

And why does this have to be a gender issue? If I see anyone getting hit, I will call the police or at the very least yell for the person to stop.

So many fukking cowards out there.

Come on, sis. If a man in that situation called the police or yelled at them to stop instead of diving in and risking life and limb over this known bird, you would still call them a coward. And I do think they were p*ssy. I couldn't stand and watch a woman get bricked like that. It wouldn't sit right with me, BUT, I don't have any hard time believing she campaigned for it. Of course, if she was insulting and talking shyt, I might let her get hers, and that's a serious possibility with this one. Y'all can't have it both ways. In an age where people tote guns and kill people like it's nothing, men have to risk assess in these situations, so if women refuse to act right, this could happen.

 

[Thanos]

Nothing owed, but there are things that are good to do. You don't have to risk your life to diffuse a situation but folx assumed they have to fight.

 

[Ty Daniels]

Men have to risk assess in these situations, so if women refuse to act right, this could happen.

Facts!

Men have to "Move" different than Women.
So many Females think there won't be any consequences for their actions.

The average man especially Black Man, knows better.

I've seen many females "cussing" folks out, flipping people off in public, being "Rude" etc..

The average Breh KNOWS some shyt could pop off, so acts accordingly.

Men are at a greater risk of harm from other Men, than Women ever could be.

I've seen Females "cuss" out, and put fingers in face of Dudes, I know would "Smoke" another Breh.
Naturally Nothing happened!

The same dude, would start some shyt if a random Breh, "Looked at him Funny".

I've also seen dudes stepping in if they feel a female was being disrespected, or was in danger.

The average Breh knows that if he is getting physical with a Female, that another Breh might step in.

 

[Richard Glidewell]

Domestic violence incidents are some of the most dangerous situations to insert yourself in, and that is where the focus should be. Not this sensationalized internet shyt. These internet occurrences no matter how frequently they pop up are outliers and aren't representative of the actual levels that the mob is screaming about. Take that as you will.

 

[ThatTruth777]

Its like trying to stop somebody from running into a burning house.
They go in said house, get fukked up then want to hold you responsible for not stopping them

 

[TQbrit]

Nuances to “helping women/someone” is being conflated. I’m a good individual so, I see an innocent person being victimized I would help as best as I could.

But, they want dudes to just be human shields for their lack of accountability. Some of them talking like our lives are expendable.

Those 2 scenarios are being used as one. Most men are saying “yo, I’m not just about to be your human shield because you unruly and shyt”.

Stop being willfully incompetent, no one is asking you to be a bullet sponge for them. All they're asking for is to be a descent fukking human being and offer HELP when you see a crime being committed
Why do you expect folks to step in and help you in time of racist attacks but want to be mute when you see women abused by other men?
Please disavow from these mental gymnastics and just say what yall want to say with your chests
None of the men present thought to call the police. None! This has nothing to do with race even.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Come on, sis. If a man in that situation called the police or yelled at them to stop instead of diving in and risking life and limb over this known bird, you would still call them a coward. And I do think they were p*ssy. I couldn't stand and watch a woman get bricked like that. It wouldn't sit right with me, BUT, I don't have any hard time believing she campaigned for it. Of course, if she was insulting and talking shyt, I might let her get hers, and that's a serious possibility with this one. Y'all can't have it both ways. In an age where people tote guns and kill people like it's nothing, men have to risk assess in these situations, so if women refuse to act right, this could happen.

Please stop projecting your feelings on to me.