They both wrong.
-The dude is confusing being in the top percentile with being top tier. And the fact he lead with "Im 6'4" nullifies all that top tier talk. First of all no real top tier man is uttering "Im a top tier man" Also good on her for calling him out after disregarding her talking points as "womanese" while sounding like woman him damn self.
The lady had a few good points at first then went straight bird mode.
- A man does not prioritize his woman/wife/gf, whatever. If he her do he and/or her gone be miserable. At the very least he gone get treated like a sucker (see Russell Wilson).
- You create a space to feel good about yourself, the other person must add to it. Just like how men say "she's need to be my peace" no nikka, be your own peace.
- Everything else she said goes both ways.
Are you married?… if you don’t prioritize your wife (and she, the same) your marriage is going to be miserable, unless you don’t like each other in the first place.
What is the point if the marriage otherwise? You may as well not get married.
Also, to prioritize doesn’t mean that every moment of your life revolves around that one thing. I can prioritize my wife and still communicate that specific times are for something other than my wife. At times I prioritize work, or myself, or my kids. I have various priorities that I have to balance… But if it’s golf/homeboys/watching sports/etc. or my wife… 9 times out of 10, I’m choosing my wife. Not because I feel like it in the moment, but because I love my wife and it’s more important.