Beefing with siblings as you get older..

[86\*/98]

Brehs..Me and my older brother the older we get just don't get along..it's pretty sad because as a kid I used to look up to that nicca.

But now that he's become and has made some poor decisions and sees me making moves it's like he goes out his way to hate on me in front of fam.

What's the best way to deal with this nicca?

Continue to be successful while distancing yourself from him emotionally. When that nikka is clowning don't even engage him, just let him talk himself out. When you do have to talk with him for whatever reason, pretend like he's a bum on the street and act/ speak accordingly.

Make yourself into Michael Corleone and him into Fredo.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Selfishness is the main cause of beef between siblings. Please teach your children to share yall so you dont wind up fighting one another over money. and the opposite sex.

Its so demonic, friends.

 

[-DMP-]

i dont beef I jus

-DMP-

 

[WhatsGoodTy]

You should always have beef with your brother, it's competition tbh.

 

[observe]

me and my brothers tight as fucc, that dont stop us from squarin off when a disagreement arises but right after that we be cool again

Yup..I remember when I used to fight my younger brother all the time..he's like 4 inches taller than me..one time I tried to slam his head into the sharp corner of the desk..another time we fought and he pile drived my head into the tile floor then I got locked out the house ..I tried to get back inside thru the back door and he was behind the glass flashing his pistol at me..

 

[ADK]

Me and my bro fight errday b. I call him a Curious George lookin nikka and he calls me Little Bill. Sometimes he gets the advantage and beats my ass.

It's over when he leaps from the couch and hits that Macho Man elbow drop

 

[Geek]

This sucker playing MMOs while Im tryng to torrent some anime/tvshows. I pay the damn internet bill.

Hes lucky I dont drop kick him ala Janenety.

Nah, were cool. Same interests and hobbies. Always got along.

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

IM 12 years older than my bro, so needless to say we didn't have much in common growing up except maybe video games. Now that he's 19 and IM 31 I feel like we get along just fine, he comes thru and we chill quite often.

I find it's best to just be direct with family, just tell him what you don't like and hopefully he will stop. If he doesn't then at least you told him how you feel and you can move along.

yup, with family you gotta just be honest.

tell them the truth even though it may hurt, it's coming from a genuine source.
also, you need to take that honesty just like you give it.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

IM 12 years older than my bro, so needless to say we didn't have much in common growing up except maybe video games. Now that he's 19 and IM 31 I feel like we get along just fine, he comes thru and we chill quite often.

I find it's best to just be direct with family, just tell him what you don't like and hopefully he will stop. If he doesn't then at least you told him how you feel and you can move along.

See that's basically my situation..my older bro is about that age difference over me and we were hella tight in my early 20's but now as I approach late 20's and he's basically pushing 40 this nicca just totally changed

 

[LebronsHairline]

Stop dealing with him if he's just causing you problems, that's what i did with my brother. My oldest brother (36 i think?) is a complete p*ssy so i don't even fukk with him, and my other brother reminds me of a bytch in a man's body so whenever he tries to talk to me about some shyt I clearly don't give a fukk about i just cut him off like i would with any woman

I still find it funny that out of my entire family the person im closest with is my half brother who i didn't even meet till i was 13

 

[Anbesa]

Me and my two sisters are extremely cool and haven't had a major argument in years

It's crazy because my dad and his siblings (he has like 8) barely talk to each other and have beef over petty shyt
Me and my cousins laugh about how we act more mature then they do