Beefing with siblings as you get older..

[MaccabeanRebel]

Brehs..Me and my older brother the older we get just don't get along..it's pretty sad because as a kid I used to look up to that nicca.

But now that he's become and has made some poor decisions and sees me making moves it's like he goes out his way to hate on me in front of fam.

What's the best way to deal with this nicca?

 

[HarlemsOwn]

ya life sucks

i love my brother

 

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[Chill]

Brehs..Me and my older brother the older we get just don't get along..it's pretty sad because as a kid I used to look up to that nicca.

But now that he's become and has made some poor decisions and sees me making moves it's like he goes out his way to hate on me in front of fam.

What's the best way to deal with this nicca?

Just move on and ignore his bullshyt.

 

[beanz]

i was a horrible big brother when i was younger. so miserable all the time and i took it out on my younger brother who is 4 years younger than me. we get along now tho after we smoked countless blunts together but i still feel bad about that shyt

 

[MF_BREW]

RKO that boy. It's pure jealous, simple as that. He had chances in his life to do what best for him and he blow it and this is coming from the oldest brother in my family.

 

[DreadHead P]

me and my brothers tight as fucc, that dont stop us from squarin off when a disagreement arises but right after that we be cool again

 

[JayYoung713]

I'm 5 years older than my younger brother and we get along fine now as adults. I use to hate him as a kid because he was always blowing me up when I tried to bring girls over and other demonic activity as a youngsta but now that we grown we cool.

 

[King Poetic]

me and my sister don't even talk no more..she mad at me our mom and dad over something another family member said and mad cause my mom and dad dont get along that much..

i will always love my sister and my family but i can't worry about it

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

It can be easy to get into beefs with your siblings. Usually im the peace keeper but I get involved in shyt too. It really just comes down to getting over the petty bullshyt which it usually is. If you want to stay a tight nit FAM and not get hung up on dumb shyt then u gotta move on and make up.nobody ever wants to apologize tho.

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

Dbl

 

[LordFendiMane]

I have an older step brother and me and dude are completely different but we get alone pretty good. He is super successful and I'm doing above average myself so our situations are similar but I'm not a loser like your brother. I actually look up to dude and i hope i can get where he is, minus the white wife so I don't know how being a hater feels but maybe you're like my bro and you brag about where you are in life and try to son him because he's not on your level and you don't notice it so it makes him feel a certain way.

Just check yourself first before you try to deal with him. If I'm completely wrong there is really nothing you can do about it. You can pick your friends but not your family so call his ass out when he starts hating and let it be known you won't tolerate fukk sh1t.

 

[LezJepzin]

I'm dealing with the same shyt with my sister right now. She can't deal with adversity as well as I can and she hates me because of that , along with some jealousy bullshyt.

It's getting sad cause our mom has been beefing with her brother on and off my whole life and she warned us about going the same path

 

[HoLLaBaCK]

IM 12 years older than my bro, so needless to say we didn't have much in common growing up except maybe video games. Now that he's 19 and IM 31 I feel like we get along just fine, he comes thru and we chill quite often.

I find it's best to just be direct with family, just tell him what you don't like and hopefully he will stop. If he doesn't then at least you told him how you feel and you can move along.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Should just tell him he's flabby and sick tbh.