Bed Wenchers Gonna Wench - Regina King: More Black Women Should Date Outside Their Race

[↓R↑LYB]

Uplift, impower and cater to black women. Make black men who don't feel that black women are superior to other women feel bad about themselves.

fukk outta here. Let these wenches wench. And when they get called all types of Mayates, ******s, and nig nogs they better not slither they wench asses back over here

 

[Originalman]

You know what I've noticed? It's not that other groups don't desire us, it's that social stigmas oftentimes hold them back.

Either way why would a blk person want somebody too afraid to admit to who they want?


Nah. These women are lonely. It isn't jealousy although a lotta blk male c00ns would like to think so for reasons we won't get into.

After decades of lies being told about blk women and blk men in the media about 70% single bullshyt, then some blk male celebs going on a diss blk women campaign in hip hop, and blk male shortages due to white supremacy, the rise of the blk female c00n was eminent. Some have been there all along...waiting for a ripe time to strike...
Okay I'm being overly dramatic but u get the picture.

Really to be honest, there aren't that many blks who are honest to God white worshiping c00ns. Instead there are lonely, overlooked, invisible, ostracized blks in our community who choose to identify with whites out of revenge...kinda like the hunchback in the movie 300.

Unfortunately the Internet allows these people to post undetected and make multiple posts so people end up thinking a lot more are like this than there actually is.

Well said and don't forget misery loves company and my favorite.....it is always easier to be black and hate your own than love your own.

 

[The M.I.C.]

fukk outta here. Let these wenches wench. And when they get called all types of Mayates, ******s, and nig nogs they better not slither they wench asses back over here

This.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

If they try to date outside of their race, they will still have very limited prospects. Most dudes of other races would have black women last on their list of preferences.

Actually you'd be surprised. We need to put this myth of the undesired blk woman to rest. I get that people still tout this to discourage wenching but it's just not factual.

A lot of men avoid blk women not because they are undesirable but because of stereotypes that surround us. When men get to know you past layers of bullshyt, attraction happens. Regardless of that there's still a hump that many have to get over and that's blk women's attraction or lack thereof to non-blk men. But nobody gives credit to that because other's preferences are emphasized over our own.

But yeah. Stop it with the nobody wants blk women narrative. I've met far too many women in other races who are very attracted to us because objectively blk is beautiful. But this doesn't mean blk relationships will ever be endangered by IR ones because overall most people desire their own.

It's 2016 and we don't have to try and tear blk women down support blk relationships.

 

[RAX 010]

 

[ridedolo]

(Sigh) I just wish people would date period. Date everybody so you can see that non-blks aren't magical leprechauns that will turn u into a desirable person if u rub their skin 3 times.

dap +rep. i notice that some of the black people who romanticize whites the most have the least amount of actual experience with them.

 

[ridedolo]

Actually you'd be surprised. We need to put this myth of the undesired blk woman to rest. I get that people still tout this to discourage wenching but it's just not factual.

A lot of men avoid blk women not because they are undesirable but because of stereotypes that surround us. When men get to know you past layers of bullshyt, attraction happens. Regardless of that there's still a hump that many have to get over and that's blk women's attraction or lack thereof to non-blk men. But nobody gives credit to that because other's preferences are emphasized over our own.

But yeah. Stop it with the nobody wants blk women narrative. I've met far too many women in other races who are very attracted to us because objectively blk is beautiful. But this doesn't mean blk relationships will ever be endangered by IR ones because overall most people desire their own.

It's 2016 and we don't have to try and tear blk women down support blk relationships.

exactly. whites have a defense mechanism against black women because they know that their genitals are lacking and they wont be able to satisfy her, especially if she's been with black men.

cac men used to steal sex from slaves (men and women) more than they fukked their own wives. They've always been sexually inferior which makes them extremely curious and jealous of black sexuality. it's no coincidence that "cuckold" is a HUGE part of their culture.

 

[hayesc0]

Of all groups of people, Black women are the least likely group of women that will date outside of their race. When you have everyone else who is willing to explore but a Black woman is like, “I want me a brother,” well, if the brothers are out and they’re open to date everybody and the majority of Black women aren’t willing to look twice when a man outside of their race is sending them messages, then that makes our percentage rate lower and the chances of finding love, because we’re only looking in one specific place for finding love—with Black men.

Every single one of my girlfriends won’t date men that aren’t Black. I have maybe about five and these are people that I’m really considering my friends, not people that are associates or that you talk to or deal with at work. I have about five Black friends who date outside of their race. But all the other friends of mine, it’s either they vocally say that they won’t or every time an opportunity comes up for them to date outside of their race, there’s some excuse why it’s not going to work. They never really say it’s because he’s White, or because he’s Spanish or something like that. It’ll be more like, Well, you know he works at such and such, and our schedules don’t match.’ But we’ll know really what it is. It’s ’cause he’s White.

It’s more common here on the West Coast. I think in New York, you find more Black women that date outside of their race. But in L.A. not as many. I think Black women need to open up. A lot of Black women still carry a lot of pain when they see Black men with women who aren’t Black and that’s really unfortunate that that could make us so upset. It has to do with self esteem. With women on a whole, what a man thinks about us means so much to us. Does he think my hair is right? Does he think I look right? Does he think my ass is big enough? Does he think my titties are big enough?

And 9 chances out of 10, that man didn’t even give a fukk. He couldn’t even tell that you had a pimple that day or that your hair wasn’t done. Most men don’t even give a fukk. And the men that do that are really paying attention that hard to your ass or titties or exterior stuff, that’s probably not the best person for you anyway. One of my friends was asking me if I would set him up with one of my friends and I asked him, “What do you like in a woman?” And his first thing was “exotic.” I’m like, “What the hell does that mean?” —As told to Starrene Rhett



The issue is more the sisters wanting a specific black man...........and we all know who that is i'll let you decipher

Im not even going to get into all the other stuff but do the numbers even back up what she is saying because often times peoples perception is wrong like people that think we have more crime today then 30 years ago.

 

[Poitier]

exactly. whites have a defense mechanism against black women because they know that their genitals are lacking and they wont be able to satisfy her, especially if she's been with black men.

Lol no. White men are buying p*ssy from Black women behind closed doors. Way more than you think. They just have a code they stick to and know not to bring a Black woman home nor put a ring on her finger.

 

[Bigsuk]

Nice try, but wrong, particularly on the Latino part.

Who cares only lames who have nothing better to do go on about other folks and who they date and if they date or go with someone outside there race ...its no nice try about it ... Am mixed race so obviouly i cant agree with sticking to your own race so watever ... Like i said only lames who have a sad life n concerned about others lifes think about this stupid subject all the time and we in 2016 aswell ...... Cant beileve this topic keeps coming up ...

 

[Bigsuk]

Nice try, but wrong, particularly on the Latino part.

Who cares only lames who have nothing better to do go on about other folks and who they date and if they date or go with someone outside there race ...its no nice try about it ... Am mixed race so obviously i cant agree with sticking to your own race so watever ... Like i said only lames who have a sad life n concerned about others lifes think about this stupid subject all the time and we in 2016 aswell ...... Cant beileve this topic keeps coming up ...

 

[K.Dot]

fukk outta here. Let these wenches wench. And when they get called all types of Mayates, ******s, and nig nogs they better not slither they wench asses back over here

I meant BW in general

 

[ridedolo]

Lol no. White men are buying p*ssy from Black women behind closed doors. Way more than you think. They just have a code they stick to and know not to bring a Black woman home nor put a ring on her finger.

malcom x said in his book those cacs were at the hoe house at 7 am tryna get some black p*ssy before work... asking for the charcoal tall ones too. im well aware


in my experience whites are intimidated by black women and rely on money/ perceived status to get them.

 

[Bigsuk]

If they try to date outside of their race, they will still have very limited prospects. Most dudes of other races would have black women last on their list of preferences.

Not true .... Am mixed and am friends with plenty ov white folk they all tell me how much they love black women even some like em more the white women .... This is just a public and media view ... Dont beileve everything the media says

 

[Poitier]

in my experience whites are intimidated by black women and rely on money/ perceived status to get them.

think you have this wrong. dig deeper and be more observant.