Bed Wenchers Gonna Wench - Regina King: More Black Women Should Date Outside Their Race

[IWunD3r]

Well, yea...... black women are more shallow than other groups of women

All women are shallow b.

Just that blk women be harder on blk men sometimes

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

(Sigh) I just wish people would date period. Date everybody so you can see that non-blks aren't magical leprechauns that will turn u into a desirable person if u rub their skin 3 times.

 

[Ol’Otis]

(Sigh) I just wish people would date period. Date everybody so you can see that non-blks aren't magical leprechauns that will turn u into a desirable person if u rub their skin 3 times.

They don't hear you though


And TBH ain't nobody checking for black people period
We're at the end of the dating totem pole

 

[H.I.M.]

Other than bedwench havens like DC or NYC

DC broads ain't checkin for peckawoods like that...somebody than told you wrong.

either that or you confusing Mo County/Charles County & NOVA broads with chicks from the city.

 

[Cadillac]

Be the voice of Huey Freeman and be a negro bed wench, brehs​

Breh this got me

Not regina

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

No

I think it's time to make some changes in your life my friend. If I were you I'd practice having a casual conversation with women. Don't hit on them, lol, you have negative game.

Just chat with them and keep it light. Work the eye contact. And look for her signals. Even if you get rejected you might make the roster. Girls give out ten day contracts, if you act right, you might get one.

 

[Barnett114]

Of all groups of people, Black women are the least likely group of women that will date outside of their race. When you have everyone else who is willing to explore but a Black woman is like, “I want me a brother,” well, if the brothers are out and they’re open to date everybody and the majority of Black women aren’t willing to look twice when a man outside of their race is sending them messages, then that makes our percentage rate lower and the chances of finding love, because we’re only looking in one specific place for finding love—with Black men.

Every single one of my girlfriends won’t date men that aren’t Black. I have maybe about five and these are people that I’m really considering my friends, not people that are associates or that you talk to or deal with at work. I have about five Black friends who date outside of their race. But all the other friends of mine, it’s either they vocally say that they won’t or every time an opportunity comes up for them to date outside of their race, there’s some excuse why it’s not going to work. They never really say it’s because he’s White, or because he’s Spanish or something like that. It’ll be more like, Well, you know he works at such and such, and our schedules don’t match.’ But we’ll know really what it is. It’s ’cause he’s White.

It’s more common here on the West Coast. I think in New York, you find more Black women that date outside of their race. But in L.A. not as many. I think Black women need to open up. A lot of Black women still carry a lot of pain when they see Black men with women who aren’t Black and that’s really unfortunate that that could make us so upset. It has to do with self esteem. With women on a whole, what a man thinks about us means so much to us. Does he think my hair is right? Does he think I look right? Does he think my ass is big enough? Does he think my titties are big enough?

And 9 chances out of 10, that man didn’t even give a fukk. He couldn’t even tell that you had a pimple that day or that your hair wasn’t done. Most men don’t even give a fukk. And the men that do that are really paying attention that hard to your ass or titties or exterior stuff, that’s probably not the best person for you anyway. One of my friends was asking me if I would set him up with one of my friends and I asked him, “What do you like in a woman?” And his first thing was “exotic.” I’m like, “What the hell does that mean?” —As told to Starrene Rhett



The issue is more the sisters wanting a specific black man...........and we all know who that is i'll let you decipher

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

(Sigh) I just wish people would date period. Date everybody so you can see that non-blks aren't magical leprechauns that will turn u into a desirable person if u rub their skin 3 times.

 

[Michael9100]

I think it's time to make some changes in your life my friend. If I were you I'd practice having a casual conversation with women. Don't hit on them, lol, you have negative game.

Just chat with them and keep it light. Work the eye contact. And look for her signals. Even if you get rejected you might make the roster. Girls give out ten day contracts, if you act right, you might get one.

But if she isn't physically attracted to me in the first place, it isn't going anywhere

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

But if she isn't physically attracted to me in the first place, it isn't going anywhere

Duh my nikka. Attraction takes time sometimes. I thought this girl was repulsive four months ago. Now I'm attracted to her a lot because I talked to her with no intention of fukking her. Got to know her more and I like the total package.

 

[Michael9100]

Duh my nikka. Attraction takes time sometimes. I thought this girl was repulsive four months ago. Now I'm attracted to her a lot because I talked to her with no intention of fukking her. Got to know her more and I like the total package.

do black women approach/compliment you?

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

do black women approach/compliment you?

Yes. I'm not handsome or normal though, so I'm usually on the menu out of curiosity.

 

[ezrathegreat]

Date whoever you want to, it's your life and you only live once.

 

[Michael9100]

Yes. I'm not handsome or normal though, so I'm usually on the menu out of curiosity.

See... in my 26 years on earth, I've never had a black woman/girl approach nor compliment me.......

 

[K.Dot]

u can't dictate who dates who....like stop it lol. She's a strong woman who has her own mind and volition and she will do as she pleases

sure, but you are officially exiled from the black community when you do.