A recent study concluded that black women disproportionately make up the "ugly woman" google search database in virtually every non-black country in the world (controlling for Japan because the Japanese don't seem to include black women in their database and controll for Africa because only black people live there, beautiful or ugly):
Study Reveals Disproportionate Image Results of Black Women When Phrase ‘Ugly Woman’ is Googled - Atlanta Black Star
So what this study implies is that no matter what, black women will always be disrespected as the bottom of female society in non-black countries. Women after all are rewarded by all men for beauty and least when lacking it.
These facts are why your "I want to help black women by promoting IR" is nonsensical, (ironically) anti-black woman and bound to fail. There is no society that has ever respected black women through dating IR and no black female group has ever gotten respect through dating IR. Black women are at the bottom everywhere--from China to London to Peru--unless and until black men rise in society and enforce new mores.
So you can either help black men rise and discourage IR among black women or you can keep using this "invest in black women" mantra to hide behind your own c00nery and doom the very black women you claim to want to "help".
If you want to "eat" without any regard to black women (since as facts and history shows, you're not helping BW at all), then just be honest and say so.