Because my friends don't like how shy I am about my body, my towel was snatched off today

Ms.CuriousCat

All Star
Joined
Mar 7, 2014
Messages
4,117
Reputation
1,040
Daps
8,641
Towel snatching, hands up skirts, slapping boos, molested with an instrument...

Either you ladies are epic trolls messing with coli males' minds or you are frustrating your lesbian "friends" by being super slow

Just tell them you're not gay and you're not willing to experiment :yeshrug:
 

Dwolf

Veteran
Joined
Oct 29, 2012
Messages
35,577
Reputation
9,585
Daps
107,276
Reppin
Murim
Towel snatching, hands up skirts, slapping boos, molested with an instrument...

Either you ladies are epic trolls messing with coli males' minds or you are frustrating your lesbian "friends" by being super slow

Just tell them you're not gay and you're not willing to experiment :yeshrug:
:dwillhuh:
 

Melza

♩ ♪ ♫ ♬
Joined
Dec 30, 2012
Messages
213
Reputation
100
Daps
595
Yeah, she definitely wants to sleep with you and is testing the waters. I had a "friend" like that too. Make sure you lock your room door tonight. If you don't have a lock, pick up a door wedge from the dollar store.
 

KOOL-AID

I Pitty Da Fool
Supporter
Joined
Aug 12, 2013
Messages
24,748
Reputation
16,297
Daps
69,922
:lolbron: i was finna make a joke, but this is not the appropriate setting...file a sexual assault report on her if its tht much of a problem or concern (i'm serious). Have you tlkd to her about your discomfort with her brash actions?
 

Regine Hunter

Captain Fupa
Supporter
Joined
Dec 14, 2013
Messages
15,862
Reputation
6,890
Daps
28,485
:lolbron: i was finna make a joke, but this is not the appropriate setting...file a sexual assault report on her if its tht much of a problem or concern (i'm serious). Have you tlkd to her about your discomfort with her brash actions?
She knows.
She brushed it off
"Is there something you have that I don't" she keeps saying
 

KOOL-AID

I Pitty Da Fool
Supporter
Joined
Aug 12, 2013
Messages
24,748
Reputation
16,297
Daps
69,922
She knows.
She brushed it off
"Is there something you have that I don't" she keeps saying
Oh, well females are more hands on with one another these days, I've seen it plenty myself (dnt mean they're gay persay, but rather can appreciate they friends' looks to a degree). Its not even a USA thing foreal, generations are getting more sexualized. Go file that report tho
 

Spike Tarantino

Esposa
Supporter
Joined
Jun 23, 2015
Messages
456
Reputation
770
Daps
1,492
Reppin
Filfee Nasteh Duddy Souf
I had something like this happen with my best friend of 15 years. She's now BANNED from bringing her disrespectful azz to my apartment. No excuses, no exceptions, I don't care.:francis:

No one has the right to make you feel uncomfortable or to purposely embarrass you. Please don't feel like you don't have the right to assert yourself.

I know that a lot of times, we don't want to be the "heavy" in a friendship, by seriously addressing something, but your boundaries are YOUR boundaries, whether they make sense to your friend or not.
 

old_timer

Taxi Squad
Joined
Mar 27, 2014
Messages
2,396
Reputation
2,368
Daps
6,849
i read your other thread, too
so.. you are prety much broke
and i'm guessing you don't have a steady boyfriend to cohabitate??

therefore, the choices are move home (follow @Panthera advice)
or you need to let it be sxual with this woman

i'm sorry, brehette.. it's a dirty game
but every single time i stayed with a woman..
(in terms of needing a place temporarily or even for the night)
it turned sexual 100% whether i wanted it or not
didn't matter if they had set up a guest room clean sheet and shyt
the expectation became clear soon enough
literally the one time i stepped over the hints and flirting-
next morning i was hit the rent expectations for each day i stayed

best bet is to take charge sexually
give her what she wants but control the boundaries
play your cards right
let her hold you down for a few months while you get your paper together
 

old_timer

Taxi Squad
Joined
Mar 27, 2014
Messages
2,396
Reputation
2,368
Daps
6,849
sorry, that last post sounds fukked up:shaq2:
but the advice is genuinely well-meant

i mean, when you are broke nad "between fixed residences"
your options are very limited
moving home is probably the best choice for 95% of people

remember- normal people with their own place don't take in unnecessary roommates
except for repaying an old debt/favor, blood relative, they are lonely (platonic), or.. welp
so be alert- stay strategic
an unpleasant situation can turn catastrophic if this "friend" puts you on the street with 10 minutes notice

maybe @Billy Costigan can speak on it
 

Regine Hunter

Captain Fupa
Supporter
Joined
Dec 14, 2013
Messages
15,862
Reputation
6,890
Daps
28,485
sorry, that last post sounds fukked up:shaq2:
but the advice is genuinely well-meant

i mean, when you are broke nad "between fixed residences"
your options are very limited
moving home is probably the best choice for 95% of people

remember- normal people with their own place don't take in unnecessary roommates
except for repaying an old debt/favor, blood relative, they are lonely (platonic), or.. welp
so be alert- stay strategic
an unpleasant situation can turn catastrophic if this "friend" puts you on the street with 10 minutes notice

maybe @Billy Costigan can speak on it
So I should drop out of school and go home?
This close in getting my degree?


fukk, I hate life right now. I'm just letting everyone down
 
Top