B. Simone : I don’t want a regular 9-5 nikka, “ He wouldn’t understand my lifestyle”

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Misogynistic words like this is why I love when women speak their mind and get their way:blessed:



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You can’t live up to expectations. Keep living your mediocre life while women continue being better than you :umad:
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She has a point tho. With the type of lifestyle she has always being on the road and shyt a dude with a 9-5 wouldn’t be a good fit. That lifestyle is very routine compared to what she does. Let’s be honest. Most of y’all wouldn’t be able to handle having a woman who’s barely home. I know I prolly wouldn’t
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That might be true but from the big ballers I know, the fact that their work lives are so hectic means they want stability at home.

My godfather in the Dmv has a mansion with a pool, 5 car garage and his wife drives a Cayenne.
He'd never try and build with Simone just off the strength of the nonexistent closeness.

It really sounds like she's saying she wants someone who wouldn't mind the distance in a relationship.

That doesn't come with a title but a personality.
 

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Funny because when I think "Entrepreneur" I think of poor time management and always busy doing nothing. I prefer a guy that prioritizes work, dating, life, etc and balances his schedule accordingly.

I'm not sure what kind of entrepreneurs you've dealt with but poor time management isn't something that can exist in the same space as efficiency. I own a small businesses and my time is planned out down to the minute most days.

This the result of a culture inundated with entertainment, and over consumption of social media. By entrepreneur, I am guessing she means somehow who is rolling in money (that's code word for that but it is less crass to flat out say that she does not want someone earning an average income which is sustainable). Entrepreneurs

(1) Require startup capital in the form of equity/debt
(2) Entrepreneurs do not pay themselves a substantial salary for a while until the company becomes profitable because in the beginning lifecycle of the company you are burning through cash.
(3) There are high earning CEOs (employees of the shareholders of the company) look at the investment banks and Fortune 500 companies. These men/women make $10 million in addition to stock options and they are middle aged or older.

But what I have noticed is that due to the culture and just images of instant/fast accumulation of wealth whether via sports and entertainment, a lot of individuals have a warped idea that there are a lot of millionaires and billionaires out there got their wealth quickly not realizing that most wealthy self-made wealthy people in American society do not acquire wealth until they are middle age 40+ years old. If you look at the high earning professions in society outside of business (i.e doctors), they have to go through 4 years of college, 4 years of Med school and a residency program. It's a a long patient process and a lot of women do not understand that at least those who are not educated. She basically wants men in their 20s and 30s to be rolling in millions. It is not happening in America where the vast majority of men do not have it like that and you narrow it to Black men it's a rare exception like a unicorn due t the wealth gap.

There is nothing wrong earning a regular wage if it is sustainable and there is nothing wrong with wanting more money for yourself either. But we have come to a place where a lot of women are shaming men for being average joes and not really being educated on issues such as wage stagnation over the past 30-40 years in the western economies.


Man, I wish more people understood this. People think because I'm a business owner that I'm rolling in dough. This couldn't be further the truth. I have enough for my bills and what I am able to save is going to be invested into another business soon. It will pay off because I have a clear vision, connections, and I'm consistent with my grind. A close friend cut his losses and went back to a 9-5 because he said he couldn't deal with working more and being paid less than he was before he tried his hand at ownership. I might feel the same way if I had children like him but all I'm responsible for is me, so I just grind.
 

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That might be true but from the big ballers I know, the fact that their work lives are so hectic means they want stability at home.

My godfather in the Dmv has a mansion with a pool, 5 car garage and his wife drives a Cayenne.
He'd never try and build with Simone just off the strength of the nonexistent closeness.

It really sounds like she's saying she wants someone who wouldn't mind the distance in a relationship.

That doesn't come with a title but a personality.
I agree. I think men in general value stability at home. When we are in relationships it’s easy for us to get comfortable
 
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