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What did it say the OG tweet? It was deleted.
wrongSettle = choosing
Settling implies you were presented with options and then you chose one.
Men put in their bid and then whether or not it leads to anything is decided by the woman.
Something that really bothers me, and honestly has given me a sense of a little bit of an insecurity, is the fact that yeah, there are all these women, like, throwing themselves (at him), but me, like the past 10 years, I don't have any of that," she said. "I have zero – this sounds weird – but, like, male attention, and so then I begin to internalize it, and I'm like, 'Is something wrong with me?' "
Pinkett Smith admitted she "dealt with that for years, too" when she was younger.
"I don't want it," Curry added, "but it'd be nice to know that, like, someone's lookin'."
I mean if we being honest this is common knowledge thou
Not sure why this is new to y’all but it’s common knowledge women want attention from other guys right?
This is completely bullshyt. She clearly has baby weight and a naturally fat ass head which is not a cute combination. When she gets back down she get the flirting back. Men don't give a fukk about keeping someone else's home happy.
Reading this thread you would think she said something horrible but reading what she actually said makes sense. She used the wrong words but I get what she’s saying, everyone wants to feel desirable, especially when women that look better or even just different from you are all shooting for your husband and you just had a baby so you don’t feel as attractive as you used to just adds to that.
Then you have the whole world comparing you to the hoes trying to take your man, any woman would feel less than and want just a little validation. She shouldn’t have said this in an interview though, some things you just have to keep things to yourself no matter how bad it makes you feel. If she felt insecure now, she’s gonna really feel now. Now she’s gonna be called an insecure hoe on top of the feelings of inadequacy she already feels.
The fact she even expressed it publicly is immature and highly tacky and disrespectfulReading this thread you would think she said something horrible but reading what she actually said makes sense. She used the wrong words but I get what she’s saying, everyone wants to feel desirable, especially when women that look better or even just different from you are all shooting for your husband and you just had a baby so you don’t feel as attractive as you used to just adds to that.
Then you have the whole world comparing you to the hoes trying to take your man, any woman would feel less than and want just a little validation. She shouldn’t have said this in an interview though, some things you just have to keep things to yourself no matter how bad it makes you feel. If she felt insecure now, she’s gonna really feel now. Now she’s gonna be called an insecure hoe on top of the feelings of inadequacy she already feels.
Exactly,nothing wrong with wanting to look equally attractive to your spouse,or in the same league. It probably sucks feeling like your husband can do better than you,and that he's settling. You nikkas in here are an absolute disgrace for shaming her for being honest. When in fact you should be uplifting her for what she stands for as one of the few outspoken righteous women. You should be giving her wisdom and letting her know that insecurity is VERY empowering. This is the exact feeling that may lead to her hitting the gym harder as she should for her husband.
The woman you marry still chose you to be the one to get to that stage.wrong
men choose if they will marry a woman at the end of the day
any man with options knows this
The fact she even expressed it publicly is immature and highly tacky and disrespectful
I dont care what kinda show it isI disagree. I do think this is something that should be talked about privately or just kept to yourself. I don’t think it’s immature, tacky or disrespectful. The RTT is something for women to relate to and this kind of stuff is talked about all the time on there. Jada talked about her depression and hair loss and all types of stuff on there. She even agreed with Ayesha when she said what she said. I think people just attacked Ayesha because of the way she said it.
I think a better way to put it is for her to say being with a famous man makes her feel inadequate/less attractive. Because that’s all she’s saying. She shouldn’t have said that she wishes she could get attention from other men. Even she tried to take it back by saying “I don’t want it but...”.