All due respect my sister, but I think thats a little disingenuous on your part. When folks say shyt like "I applaud them for saying that" it kinda infers that you already know the opinion that was stated was going to cause waves and not be taken well by some folks. Like you know you saying some controversial shyt, and you said it anyway, so good for you standing up and speaking out. Nothing wrong with that, but just be prepared for the backlash, and if it adversely effects your other half, then maybe go about saying it in a different venue. Any props that Ayesha gets for being assertive and speaking her mind get bushed off rip for being selfish and thinking in terms of "me" and not "us". I ain't knocking her for saying what she said, I personally think it's a small red flag, but I aint gonna act like its a cardinal sin either, just something to make note of and KIM. Cuz you right, everybody want's to feel attractive to the opposite sex, thats a primal human desire, at the end of the day its just one of the uncomfortable parts of dating/marriage. I just have an issue with how she went about saying it. That was not the time or the place to do that shyt at all. If you ask me she houldn't have put her business out there like that anyway, but if she just had to do it, she could've pulled up on Jada in August when Steph was on a beach somewhere chilling. The way she went about the whole thing kinda shows a peek into her mind and how she would move in other situations, again not what she said itself as much as how/when/where she said it.
I'm actually kinda like damn, aesthetically she aint my type, but I respected how her and Steph moved with the kids and the whole branding as a strong Black unit. And Ayesha moving out of step with the unit right now, she not being a productive member of that union at the moment. If you married you supposed to be a team, y'all different human beings, but at the end of the day you one organism. You supposed to do what is in each others best interest, what's good for one is good for the other. And I don't care how you slice it, Ayesha saying that on front street was not in Steph's best interest, and the timing couldnt have been worse. That man supposed to be focused right now, and she just caused a whole distraction for literally no reason. She could've easily told her bestie that sitting on the couch on quiet night at the crib, she aint have to tell Jada that in front of the whole country. And she a basketball wife, she knows the dynamics of that shyt behind the scenes. She knows how them dudes talk shyt to each other, she's knows some off brand TMZ type reporter gonna ask him about it when they get the chance. Yeah Steph may be sharp enough to shrug it off, but why even put that energy out there if you don't have to? It's a distraction, and its made even worse cuz that shyt didn't even have to happen. This basically some pointless shyt that stemmed from her not having the self control to address that issue in a better venue and being selfish at worst and at best just not being self aware enough to be like "yo my dude in the playoffs right now, lemme try to keep my man focused"
We move in different circles.
