Yeah nobody wants Ayesha Curry. She's not ugly but she's not that attractive and nobody would give a fukk about her if Steph was a role player for instance (Or like his brother). She's not built like anything. Plus the average dude ain't scheming on her, there are much better women to choose from if you wanna be a side dude to some rich dude's wife
I think it's this too. If your an attractive women, no matter if your wifed, single, or in a relationship, men will still approach, look at you, oggle, and let you know that they find you attractive. So there's no reason to "speak" on it, because you already know that you got it. When you're not that attractive, or just kind of "bleh", like Ayesha, you're not getting that same attention, so you make statements like this, and feel insecure because you know you're kind of letting yourself go, and that no one is really checking for you, the way women are checking for your husband.
She probably notices that attractive women approach or want her husband, on the regular, but meanwhile, since she's not aging that well, she probably doesn't get a lot of men checking for her. I've never thought she was very attractive, just okay looking. But she looks like she's gained some weight.
Now I'm not on social media, so I don't know anything about what that sort of validation feels like. But I know what it's like to go out, and get attention, and I can only imagine that if at one point when she was younger, and looked better, she probably got more attention, then she's getting now. Probably hurting her ego a bit.