Average Looking, Future Cat Lady Details Why She Plans On Being Single Forever....

Gloxina

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Or just having to hear their nonsense and drama all the time and be the one to provide a final solution. So many women in my life are incapable sometimes on deciding on something and need me to “fix it”. It’s amazing how it takes men a few minutes to decide on what they’re going to do yet it takes women hours or days :why:
But y’all also like that about us because it makes you feel needed! The men in my family are insulted when it seems like I’m making decisions and I don’t consult them. They assume I’m just going to be a silly woman and make horrible decisions without their input. It would be funny if it weren’t actually so sweet. lol
 

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But y’all also like that about us because it makes you feel needed! The men in my family are insulted when it seems like I’m making decisions and I don’t consult them. They assume I’m just going to be a silly woman and make horrible decisions without their input. It would be funny if it weren’t actually so sweet. lol
We’d like if you took 3-5 minutes to explain the problem and actually listened to our solution. Instead it takes 20-30 minutes, most of it is being pure complaints, and then pushback on our proposed solution. Men generally like to solve problems, sure… but we also generally hate wasting time and energy on fruitless complaints and whining.

Have a problem, come up with a solution, see if it works… if not, try another solution. That’s it, lol. I don’t need to vent about it
 

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It’s one thing if she didn’t have kids saying this rhetoric
But she has two kids and she don’t even know how this not only effects her daughter but her son
This is the shyt people talk about when it comes to parenting
The kids see this shyt
The kids hear this rhetoric
So once they get out here in the world
They either fear trying to love/be loved
Or become straight sociopaths
No in betweens
Then it’s years of fukkery trying to be corrected at an old age
Regrets and “why the fukk did I do that”
Develop poor communication skills with friends and loved ones
All kinds of shyt to unpack
But you can’t critique or say anything about single mothers because that means you just hate women
Thecoli ain’t built for this conversation at all
It’s apparent by the posters that already posted
And the goofies that will inevitably come in afterwards
You the same nikkas that dap a rapist
I don’t take none of you nikkas serious
That’s on gawd
Honestly hope she seeks therapy and gets a gym membership if she wants to move at most a point up on the looks scale.
 

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Yes, like in a lot of places not named Caribbean or SEA. How do you think most women in Chad are raised?

Your problem is you mentioned 2 countries Chad & Mali which are heavily Muslims & have completely different culture than your Black American ADOS/FBA

if this was the U.K. then your point would make sense
 
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