But y’all also like that about us because it makes you feel needed! The men in my family are insulted when it seems like I’m making decisions and I don’t consult them. They assume I’m just going to be a silly woman and make horrible decisions without their input. It would be funny if it weren’t actually so sweet. lol
We’d like if you took 3-5 minutes to explain the problem and actually listened to our solution. Instead it takes 20-30 minutes, most of it is being pure complaints, and then pushback on our proposed solution. Men generally like to solve problems, sure… but we also generally hate wasting time and energy on fruitless complaints and whining.
Have a problem, come up with a solution, see if it works… if not, try another solution. That’s it, lol. I don’t need to vent about it