Bro... you're a legend on misc.It doesn't have any kind of effect. You have to be assured in your approach. Problem is "men" make a half assed attempt with no viir and then sit out and call it a day.
You have the prototypical behaviour of every other pathetic loser who would post on the misc. Literally to a tee. It won't be long before you're on here crying about how you can't get laid.