Nah, I don't thot around anymore. Too much to lose now to get trapped or be dumb about it.
But yeah, I'm pretty honest about what I want and girls will act like its cool and their down with just being chill, we fukk, and then I got an extra month or two of drama after the clinginess gets in.
Goofy, charming, and observant. I actually got a girl earlier at the grocery store by complimenting a woman on her newly done braids, cracking jokes about how she had a bunch frozen dinners in her basket, and then gave her my card and told her my first cooking class is free.
Texted me like 5 minutes later.
It's all contextual but this is pretty much the image I convey.
So your a type of dude that has a lot of personality which attracts outgoing females but once you start giving out business cards and suggesting dates like cooking classes a light bulb goes off in most gold diggers/thots heads. Your different, simp, sucker, educated, raised right. While I find nothing wrong with it, neither does a woman that's looking to take advantage of you and perceive you to be wet behind the ears. A lot of dudes make the mistake of handing women their business cards when its an invitation to most thots and gold diggers especially if you work at a mid to upper level job. Most women will in turn compartmentalize you towards her current roster maybe your husband material or maybe your the fool she going to use as a trick. Try to be less formal with women you meet is a first recommendation. my ex was a lawyer, when I first met him he told me he was a barber until about a month. Have a filtering process.