You're getting more and more ridiculous with your "concept". So people should see each other only when they are dating with the prospect of getting married? People dating just to enjoy sex for instance should not.
Black friends or family should not see each other for the sake of seeing because it's not constructive? Two strangers should see each other because they may date and get married, even though they might divorce a year later, but a father and a son should not see each other to enjoy a football game, since it's not "productive". Total absurdity.
Black people should avoid each other unless they're coming together to do something constructive. Hanging out and partying isn't of constructive value in my opinion so if I'm invited to do that I'm not pulling up, I don't care if it's family or friends, I will however come around if I'm asked to do something very specific like fix a computer for example, then I'll leave. If that's absurd then I'll wear that.